would it be rude to only invite the people that I get along with at work which is about half the department (5 people)?
2006-11-21 02:57:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I would think it is a little rude... that'll just make you a subject for rumors and water cooler talk with the ones you don't invite. Think of it this way- you don't get along with those people, they probably won't show up anyway... and if they do, you may make a new friend (could be a pretty good one, you never know) and at the least, you'll get an extra wedding gift!! HA
2006-11-21 03:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by KC 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's rude--invite everyone or invite no one---just remember no one likes to be left out and if you only invite a select few the others will feel resentful towards you. Chances are, the ones you don't want to invite won't come to your wedding anyway so you have nothing to worry about. Good luck!
2006-11-21 08:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Penguin Gal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not rude.... I am in a similar position, and I am only inviting a few people form work, my boss and a couple of co workers.... if you don't get a long with the other that probably means you don't really talk to them anyway... I wouldn't feel bad its your wedding day you don't want to invite people who might rain on your parade... you just go forward with your plans.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-21 03:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not rude to invite only certain people. Especially if you have a budget/rsvp to follow. We have a certain amount of space where we are getting married. I work with about 50 people, so I can't go inviting all 50 of them and then try to invite everyone else.
2006-11-21 05:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so... but then again now I'm in a bad situation where my boss is asking the ONE co-worker that I did invite (we're friends outside of work) why she (my boss) didn't get an invitation... and my poor friend is caught in the middle and the whole thing just makes me want to scream!!!
If you do it.... be careful about it.
2006-11-21 03:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by lillielil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's YOUR wedding. If you don't get along with the others anyway, then it's not a problem not to invite them to your wedding. Invite friends and family. If your coworkers (some, none, or all) fall under those categories, then invite them.
2006-11-21 03:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by Renee C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only invite the people who you want to invite...if you only get along with five people, then jsut invite those five. The others will be hurt, but itsn't rude on your part...it is honest.
2006-11-21 04:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im kind of in the same situation. When i get married I don't know who im going to invite since everyone at my work get along speacially with me but we work in retail and the hours vary. So i don't know who to invite. But i agree with the first answer. Good Luck.
2006-11-21 12:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by needanswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Speaking from experience, I was not very close to the women in my deaprtment at the time of my wedding so I did not invite any of them. It wasn't anything personally against either one of them, it was just that I had not felt connected enough to them to invite them to my wedding.
2006-11-21 04:00:09 · answer #9 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think so because the other people is only going to eat the food and gossip about you're dress anyway so why waist your money to invite them
2006-11-21 03:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋