can I get people to stop noticing me & trying to get to know me. I am the kind of person that is quiet and likes to keep to himself. Why are people trying to find out information about me.
2006-11-21 02:52:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wear tin foil on your head... look at your wrists every few seconds, and glare at everyone suspiciously. Act very nervous whenever anyone is around, and scratch alot... this should keep everyone away from you.
2006-11-21 02:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by Paul A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody likes a mystery, so by keeping quiet you make people even more curious about you. also, sometimes being quiet makes you stand out even more because you seem different from everybody else. i'm the same way but i've learned that if i just be polite, smile, act like i'm interested and paying attention, and at least acknowledge everyone with a hello or whatever when i see them then they'll usually lose interest and focus on other stuff.
the truth is, most people's attention span is very short and they really just want you to validate them with your own attention. once they've got it then they dont care and your no longer their focus of attention. and if they start bugging you with their curiosity then change the subject back to them and watch how quickly they focus turns around. after a while it gets easier and you learn how to stay out of the limelight that much more.
so blend in for a while and wait for your chance to go back to being your quiet self, it will happen sooner than you think. some people are really just that full of themselves.
2006-11-21 03:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are quiet and like to keep to yourself, then there is no reason why people would be noticing you or trying to get to know you. That is, unless you're doing something that is drawing attention, such as outfits/looks, etc.
People usually don't notice people that blend in. But stay true to yourself. Don't change for others.
Tell people to mind their own buisness and move on.
2006-11-21 02:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by bosnjgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs a little human contact every now and then, whether we care to admit it or not. Maybe someone is trying to find out more about you because they want to be your friend. At least they are caring enough to try and reach out to you. It's when nobody does and you are left all alone that you will really wish you had someone there.
Don't close yourself off to the world. You will never really live that way.
2006-11-21 02:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by drewsilla01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quiet makes people think you are mysterious, then they are drawn to you. They just want to find out about you because they are interested in you. Everyone likes a challenge and getting to know you is a bit of a challenge.
2006-11-21 03:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by green eyed lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress like you have no money, dont make eye contact, or look at them like they are beneath you so they better not even approach you. Also people approach quiet people if they think that they are feeling sad or left out so remember that they are just trying to be nice.
2006-11-21 03:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're curious...maybe you have this certain appeal to some people. That's really not a bad thing. You could be missing out on the one true love that's out there for everyone...don't bury your head in the sand for too long.
2006-11-21 03:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by whatever2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act standoffish. Answer questions with short one-word answers. Be hateful. Learn the phrase "Nunya bidness" People will start leaving you alone in no time.
2006-11-21 02:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if you're the quiet type, you seem intriguing to them. They view you as a conquest. They like the chase and the mystery.
2006-11-21 02:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u r quiet , try to open up with people talk to them and make friends you will not be weird to them if u did
2006-11-21 02:55:23 · answer #10 · answered by mimi ^____^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋