He always talks about how gorgeous she is and it really irritates me as i worry he thinks she's prettier than me and he's comparing us. He even has her calendar. My ex bf was Britney mad too. The funny thing about it is both of these guys are in their early fourties. How do i make him ease down without looking jealous?Should i talk about gorgeous guys?
2006-11-21 02:43:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him know that if he'd rather have a trampy, trailor trash, white wanna-be singer, who gets knocked up by a back up dancer, that he is with the wrong female.
2006-11-21 03:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by pertynpink07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeh talk about 'gorgeous' guys, but he should be more sensitive, it's natural to be drawn to beautiful people even if they are heavily made-up and probably vacuous and self-absorbed.
Nevertheless he is with you and so should only have eyes for you, though one could argue that he'll never get her so it's not an issue but I understand that kind of thing could make a person feel inferior and possibly insecure..
2006-11-21 02:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by Dan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun whilst I know what you mean - wouldnt it be a hell of a lot worse if they were on about the girl that lives next door - or the secretary in the office - britney is an unobtainable desire - you have no worries there - you have no reason to compete with her for the simple reason they can never have her.
id let them to their little fantasies! at the end of the day - YOURE the one he kisses and takes on dates not her!
Just relax about it - its not a big a deal when you put in perspective like I just have!! xx
2006-11-21 03:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least with Britney you dont have to worry she will take him away. Be reall let him fantasize, you're real and there . He knows the diff.Talk about gorgeous guys if you want to.
2006-11-21 03:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply by fact she's an fool! before everything I felt undesirable for her with all the undesirable stuff that's passed off. yet now it relatively is like, "Come ON!" Have some self appreciate and definitely think of roughly your toddlers! Gosh! She should not be allowed to any extent further toddlers.
2016-10-22 11:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to look at why you have just asked this. Is it because he is looking at Britney??? Or is it because youre insecure??? In every relationship people think/look at others it is natural. You have noticed it and i guess that's why there is a problem.
Sit him down and tell him your uncomfortable that way you both know where you stand!
Hope this helps
:)
2006-11-21 02:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jen (G cup UK) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not like he's going to run off with her is it?.....i mean how remote is that....your jealousy is getting the better of you...and so what if he thinks she's prettier than you at least he's being truthful with you, and not just saying the opposite to make you feel nice.....better to have a man who speaks the truth...than one who lies all the time, and you should be more confident with in yourself to feel good about yourself lol.
2006-11-21 02:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your man has a lolita complex.. she's young and pretty and has this male fantasy quality. Scour the magazine racks for some trash mags with some really bad pictures of white trash Brit, and post them all over your house. He should get the point.
2006-11-21 02:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by Robin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hun im sorry but guys will always think of and talk about other girls. I often talk to my boyfriend about his "woman of the moment" it always changes!!!
you could always looked at it positively you'd be more worried if it was someone on your street so he'll never get with Britney!!
relax sweetie
Rosa
2006-11-21 03:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should show him the pics of her with no make up on, full of spots with her hair hanging, not sexy!
Or you could talk about someone you like all the time, ie: Brad Pitt or George cloooney!
2006-11-21 02:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by Lou_Lou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you let that bother you? I'm sure there is some hot guy that you like but can't have. Tell him how you feel but don't let that get you all upset, he can't have her and its just a calendar.
2006-11-21 02:47:26 · answer #11 · answered by inquisitor1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋