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She is pregnant with his baby but she is cheating with her ex-boyfriend so the baby could be the ex's. He is a really great guy and he wants to be there for the baby if it's his baby otherwise he has told me that he wants to be with me. Should I just wait it out or move on? Please, I feel bad already, don't help me to feel worse. Thanks to all your comments.

2006-11-21 02:35:48 · 8 answers · asked by sharethalove 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I don't think that there's nothing you can do... I mean if the baby is his then he has no choice but to be there for his baby and that's going to cause problems with your relationship with him. She might cause problems on purpose just to spite you and it's going to be a no brainer because whatever choice he has to make, he will always choose his child. That's gonna be harder on you.

2006-11-21 02:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0 0

Wait until the baby is born. Hopefully, he is going to do a paternity test. If the baby is not his, then problem solved. If the child is his, then he can still be there for his child without being in a relationship with the mother, but he will have to make that decision himself. In the meantime, I know it's hard, but don't interfere. It will only come back to haunt you later. If you were meant to be together it will happen.

2006-11-21 02:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by justcurious 3 · 1 0

Get as far away as possible. Life is complicated enough without jumping head first in to someone else's mess.

If it is his baby, and you have a future with him, then you will have to deal with his ex's shenanigans for the rest of your life. If it turns out that it's not his kid, and he leaves her, after a while you should consider him. But I would recommend that you only consider it after a LONG time has passed.

2006-11-21 02:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by TyrusB 2 · 0 0

if he didn't love her then why is he with her? staying for the baby is just an excuse and he needs to get out if that is not where he wants to be. and there is nothing you can do but be there for him AS A FRIEND.

2006-11-21 02:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0 0

He is with her. It doesn't matter what he says, he is with her and not you. You are trying to have another woman's man and it will never work out. He is a cheater--If he is living with her, he has no business seeing you. It doesn't matter what he tells you, look at where he is.

2006-11-21 02:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0 0

You almost sound as if you want this guy...but only you can make the decision to wait or move on....

2006-11-21 02:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Wow....I'd say stay away from that one.Sounds like a ticking time bomb.

2006-11-21 02:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by Vtmtnman 4 · 0 0

my dear leave him alone .. don't get ur self in troubles

2006-11-21 02:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by mimi ^____^ 2 · 0 0

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