When you first start dating how long should you wait to have sex? We're in or 20's.
2006-11-21 02:30:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Niether of us are virgins infact I have a five year old but I haven't dated in 6 years and i don't want him to think I 'm easy
2006-11-21 03:07:02 · update #1
depends. i would probably wait until he surpised me or something. and the moment was right. depends if he is just a f*ck buddy for someone you might see you spending time with alot.it just depends.
2006-11-21 02:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by *~*Ash*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that'd depend on what you're looking for.. if it's just some fun, then whenever you're both feeling ready.. but if this has potential to be something long-term, then I kind of think it's a good idea to wait a couple of months, and really get to know each other. It'll make it a lot better when there's feelings besides just lust involved.
2006-11-21 02:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by Skyler789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you're ready. Don't intentionally bait 'em on it like a dog either. If you're both feelin it, you're both feelin it. And if you're still not, you're not. No questions. If you're worried about him only being in it for sex, he's gonna hump and dump you whether you wait a week or a month or two. So rationing out sex with him isn't a deterministic fact in garaunteeing that, despite what some women think.
2006-11-21 02:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by blah_blah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you've waited this long right?... do you plan on getting married?.. that what be the best thing.... but otherwise you wait intil you are both ready and want to... it should be something that comes pretty naturally ..... and hopefully you both know what you are wanting from this... relationship?... friendship w/ benefits?... marriage?.. children?.. do you have protection if needed?.... you wait as long as you need to wait......
2006-11-21 02:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly do not do anything on the first date. Wait til your both ready. He'll probably be ready before you are, and the first time is usually akward.
2006-11-21 02:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait until you're ready to take that next step. Don't get pressured into doing something that you aren't ready for. You'll know when the time is right.
2006-11-21 02:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by tipper 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no set amount of time to wait, just wait until you both feel comfortable doing it.
2006-11-21 02:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you can have a future with the guy ur dating than u can have sex whenever u feel you're ready, but before u do ask as many ques. as u can to try to find out all u can about your partners last relationships
2006-11-21 02:45:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're ready.You're only a virgin once.It sounds corny,but you may regret not having wait down the road.
2006-11-21 02:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by Vtmtnman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are married. If not when you are prepared for any consequences. When you are in a loving, trusting, committed relationship. Always use reliable birth control and condoms. No matter what.
2006-11-21 02:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by nanny4hap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋