*He claims to love me yet he didn't call me all weekend.
*I called him the sunday night twice and he didn't answer
or return my calls.
*I called him Monday afternoon and he didn't answer but when
called him from a number he didn't know he answered.
*I asked why he ignored me and he said he had just gotten out
of the shower and that he had been busy working all weekend.
*I told him that if he didn't want to talk to me anymore he could just
tell me but he said 'no why do you say that'.
*He sounded sad and honest.
*I told him to call me later when he had time for me.
*He didn't call me.
2006-11-21 02:27:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him how much it bothers you that he isn't keeping up on his promises, and he needs to start calling you when he says he will. Let him know you are serious about it. If he still keeps not doing what he says he will, then yeah you should dump him.
2006-11-21 02:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Kyleontheweb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you having sex with him? That make a big difference in the relationship. If you are then I would say that he is probably just keeping you around for the booty, but if you aren't I would still be a little bit skeptical about the situation but there is a better chance of the relationship working out. What it comes down to is whether or not you really value this relationship enough to make it work. If not then hey, there are plenty more fish in the sea!
2006-11-21 02:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by cabonarakittie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think you're jumping to conclusions a little too quickly?
I mean the bloke could have some personal problems and maybe he just does not want to talk to you about it yet! Just give him some time and space.
If he really has a problem, and he still loves you, then he'll call you by himself and if he doesn't, then just move on with your life!
2006-11-21 02:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by winter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so its all about phone calls? well i think that if your guy cant call or return your call even for the shortest moment(which is the simplest thing to do) there could only be 2 things going on, 1) he is so preoccupied with other things or 2) he is loosing interest on you... yet dont take my answer seriously, you must know the reason why this is happining first before jumping into something that u'll regret in the end...=D peaceout
2006-11-21 02:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by D.A. M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i totally know what you are going through right now. it stinks but he is giving the obvious signs, that he wants out and is not as involved in the relationship as you are. because as the saying goes, people do what's important to them, his actions would show that he is into you. by just showing respect by calling you, something so simple, it doesn't take much time or effort to accomplish, just to show that he cares and is thinking of you. you deserve better, every woman needs to feel loved, appreciated and wanted-this he would do by calling you. so, i know that it may be hard but you need to drop him, maybe it will show him that he didn't how good he had it, sometimes people realize the best when it's gone. you seem to have a good heart, so share it with someone that craves it 100%! wish you the best, (0:
2006-11-21 02:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by candacejoy2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man truly does love you, he would want to call you all the time. So maybe he's not as into you as you think. At least once a day he should pick up the phone and call, I'm sure he's not that busy all day
2006-11-21 02:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea. Doesn't even sound like you guys have a real relationship going on right now if you guys can't communicate. I suggest reading "He's just not into you" ... theres a section in there on guys that don't return calls.
2006-11-21 02:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not treating you the way you feel you should be treated then yes break up with him. It's not worth all the back and forth hassle of fussing, arguing over why he didn't call.
2006-11-21 02:32:12 · answer #8 · answered by inquisitor1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-21 02:36:57 · answer #9 · answered by sneakmicider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long you still with each other ? if you know each other for long time and like him and sure he likes you, give him a chance it isn't easy to lose womeone you like, may be he has any serion reasone for his manner the best way to know what happened with him is meeting with him and talk honest
i wish to you to be happy and every thing come good again
2006-11-21 02:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by monamour792003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋