2006-11-21 02:23:26 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not confusing love with lust, haven't slept with one and the other is my husband
2006-11-21 04:04:26 · update #1
i think i could be possible but i wouldnt do anything about it i mean your married
does this other guy know if not then dnt worry about it if he does or you have done anything then you should end it now
or tell your husband & leave him
if you have more feeling for this other man then maybe there is something wrong in your marrige did you ever think of that
well ive been there done that but i wasnt married at the time
i think you need to figure out whats going on in your marrige are you truely happy is there anything you & your husband need to talk about
sorry if this sound like a lot of waffle but i have kind of been there done that
hope you sort it out soon
2006-11-21 04:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by just ask jo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If u ask my opinion ..........
yes its very well possible to be in love with two men at the same time ...........
1.we r humans and we agree that no one in this world is perfect
2.we love a person means we like some of his qualities n we feel attracted towards him first later when we get to know the person very well our love may increase or decrease
3.obviously some things abut that person we like n some things we dont. then we start adjusting n yes ofcourse we are happily doing this coz we love him
4.when we are in this wonderful feeling of love we start xpecting lot many things from the man (understanding,mental support..lot of sentimental moments we share with him and want him to respond well)
5.some things he cant fulfill coz of his nature or attitude or whatever ...which he cant change
6.in this relationship we are Happy but not contended
7.but if we start getting all these other things which r missing in this relation from some other person its very obvious to get attracted to that person
8.after all we all search for happiness n there is nothing wrong to achieve happiness but we shud always take right decision as we can love both people but we shud be commited to only one ......at this confusing stage one can select a guy who loves u more than u do.
9.just dont cheat.....keep the feeling in ur mind ....be honest with the guy u pick
2006-11-21 02:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by sonali 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not, they both probably have something that you admire in a bloke, chances are one or the other doesn't have everything you want, need or admire. So you love both, because it completes you personal ideal partner.
Either that or you have confused love with lust with one or both guys.
Hell, maybe you just have more love to give than most others so you share out.
2006-11-21 02:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by robdunf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. In 2002 I had a boyfriend I loved very much but his gran died and he wanted some time alone which was hard for me as I am not a be on your own kind of person. So for six months we had a relationship via text messages. In this time, another lad came along who started giving me attention and at the time I welcomed it as I felt lonely since my boyfriend never wanted to see me and the only time I spoke to him was when he text me. And so I developed feelings for two people. I loved my boyfriend but I was also falling in love with someone else. It messes with your head!!
2006-11-21 03:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by Amy_Lou 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No its not. You should pick the one you love most and stick with him. Its not possible to love two men at the same time just like its not possible to be married two men at the same time.
2006-11-21 02:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its possible two love to people at once, but also very unfair. I know for myself as a Man and married That's is up to me if I put myself into positions to where something with the opposite sex can happen. My wife once told me that really its up to the woman if guys approaches her or not, its how she presents herself, I find this to be true. If I am not opening myself up to invitations and someone comes up to me in a (friendly) or (flirtatious) way, I talk about my beautiful wife, I learned that from my grandfather who seemed to have woman 20 years younger always approaching him. I am not saying you did anything wrong, I am just saying 99% of time we are in a bad position like that, where someone can get hurt, we put ourselves in it.
2006-11-21 02:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jon J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is. This generally means the one in love with two men at the same time needs to choose one; because it wouldn't be fair or guilt free to date two men at the same time.
2006-11-21 02:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by dymps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can love two men at the same tiime but not be in love with two. If you are in love you will have to choose - sorry.
All good things must come to a end.
2006-11-21 03:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by Kev's Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is exclusive, you only love one man at a time. I'm guessing that it may be lust towards the other man.
2006-11-21 02:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no you can't be in love with two men. it's not possible to be in love with 2 people. plus you can't possibly love 2 ppl at the same time. loving a person isn't easy.
2006-11-21 02:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋