Do you think it's right to have your bf's myspace password and check it a lots? why or why not?!
2006-11-21 02:22:33 · 6 answers · asked by Gymnasticscrazy08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i think that it is right
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2006-11-21 02:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Been there done that, caused all kinds of grief in my relationship and I'm 37!!!!! It made me not trust him. You can't know everything about a person 100%. People are going to do things wrong (we're human) but... if he is not into you, you will know, without spying on him. If he's trying to meet other people for dating, just drop him now and save yourself the heartache. There's so much trash on myspace. I caught mine sending an e-mail at 4 in the morning to an 18 year old telling her she had a nice ***. (this was during an 3 week break up during the summer which he decided on) She had her underpants pulled down while she was bent over. The internet is all fantasy and while you can meet people from on line sooner or later their true colors will shine through. No matter how good looking, how cute their "***" is they aren't without faults and problems just like the rest of us. So... if your man is on myspace let it fly even though you may not like it that he is on there, he is going to do whatever he wants, you don't get to control him, you only get to control you. Besides.... would you want him to be able to go into your stuff without your knowledge? We all have our little secrets. If you are looking that hard you are always going to find one little thing that is going to bother you. Trust me I know. Keep in mind he is your boyfriend. He did choose to be with you.
2006-11-21 10:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by dribble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. I will give you one of mine. In the beginning of my relationship with the man I am currently dating, I would notice that his female co-workers would pretend I didn't exist and would be affectionate with him in front of me. When confronted he would just say they were good friends. One day, while visiting him for lunch, he stepped out of his office for a moment. Just at that moment, an e-mail from one of his co-workers popped up on the screen. What I read just blew my mind. It turned out that he was having explicit conversations with his co-workers that I found to be very inappropriate. I eventually checked his history, got his password and 3 years later will still check to see if everything is on the down-low. So far so good. He had lied to me and I think checking for reassurance is better than not knowing.
2006-11-21 10:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by stacey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not right!
he has his privacy that you must respect. would you like your boyfriend to have your password? or go through your stuff?
on the other hand, if he's given you reasons to be suspicious.... that's another story!
2006-11-21 10:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by harieta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,unless you want to control him.Does he have yours?Personally I wouldn't give my password to a chick unless she was my wife.
2006-11-21 10:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by Vtmtnman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not right, would you be happy if he did the same to you? I don't think so.
2006-11-21 10:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by Top_secret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋