i love him but it's really annoying and on top of that he ignores the fact that i even exist
2006-11-21 02:16:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can he ignore the fact that you even exist if he keeps calling in the middle of the night? Obviously he knows your alive if he keeps calling right? And if you loved him then you would like it when he calls you, it means he cares.
2006-11-21 02:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch for HIM to touch you. If he extremely wanted to be in this relationship he does not bypass days/weeks with out contacting you . . . yet he grew to become into trustworthy in telling you which you're annoying, you're able to desire to have been smothering the guy. do not assume an apology, nor to pay attention that he misses you or has any regrets. This guy does not sound the variety to be calling from a blocked variety the final couple of days if he has no worry not calling for weeks. flow on, this guy grew to become into nicely over you long formerly the break up, it particularly is why it grew to become into very easy to assert those cruel issues.
2016-12-29 07:15:46 · answer #2 · answered by louder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Differemt strokes, they say, for different folks. A neighbour of mine has the same story, and she speaks of it with so much gladness, although i'm like 'is this girl nuts!'. What i'm saying, your boyfriend probably thinks he's being romantic by calling you late in the night. Explain to him that that doesn't work for you. If he refuses to respect your needs, start switching off your phones when you want to sleep, and if he complains tell him you were forced to take that measure because he wouldn't listen. If he really cares about you, he's get the message and chose a better time.
I reall don't understand 'he doesn't know i exist' part.
2006-11-21 02:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by Hmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off I'd start with saying that it is nice when he calls but that he needs to do it when you're not actually trying to sleep and sometime during the day, like when you get home from work or something like that.
As for the feeling ignored bit, then that obviously has to change for your relationship to work.
I think you just need to sit down with him & tell him how you feel. If he doesn't listen to you then he's probably not right for you.
2006-11-21 02:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by dementedpineapplemonster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he ignore the fact that you even exist if he calls you all the time? I think you should talk to him and let him know how you feel
2006-11-21 02:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"ignores the fact that i even exist" Soon as I read that I thought, finish with him. I know you love him, but if he's being annoying, you could talk to him but as for ignoring you...nah, finish.
2006-11-21 02:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has issues. Talk to him about it. Give him restriction on when he can call you, and if he ignores you, then maybe you should also start ignoring his calls. Then tell him why you did it. Communication is what is important here.
2006-11-21 02:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn your phone off at night. If he asked about it the next day, explain that you value sleep and rest.
2006-11-21 02:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Gyasi M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously cares about you - he wouldn't be up in the middle of the night thinking about you if he didn't.
2006-11-21 02:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has somthing to tell you but he's shy and he loves you very much and he thinks about u all the time
2006-11-21 02:22:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋