Ok so my brother is her fourth husband and he married the girl after only knowing her three months. The girl has nothing in common with my brother and they are both miserable. Yet I feel like its none of my business, nor is it my place to break the bad news.
I have a feeling she is going to take him to the cleaners....Worse thing is, I work with her and she was my friend, til I figured out she was cheating on him.
2006-11-21 02:09:00 · 12 answers · asked by ~Crystal~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Give your brother some advice. Tell him to get a lawyer and get his assets together ASAP. Then stay out of it. As for her, tell her not to bring her marriage into your relationship with her. Its not fair to you because you love your brother.
Do you think maybe she is telling you because she thinks you will tell him? Hmmmm She is a game player.
2006-11-21 02:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by babygyrl_nyc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is such a bad person and disloyal to your brother then she is not your friend. I would not get involved though because if he has any feelings for her he may feel like he has to defend her to you if you say anything. You could drop hints though. Like "Suzie - the way you and Jim hang all over each other at work. I would think you were a couple if I didnt know you were married to my brother." But you would have to say it in front of your brother. Just be there for HIM and help encourage him if the time comes for him to move on. When she comes to you to talk you should let her know that your brother and your relationship is more important then your and hers and you will not listen to her bad mouth him. Dont wait for a response just walk away.
Kathy
2006-11-21 10:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by c2god2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a mess. She is no friend and your brother deserves your support. Keep a watchful eye on her actions as to support anything she says against your brother. You should also tell her to tell your brother. The longer this takes, the more she can take your brother to the cleaners for. 3 months is not a long time in court and she wouldn't be able to get in the court's eyes.
2006-11-21 10:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by wilhelmenawiem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very horrible situation to be in. However, you are correct in saying it is none of your business. You have to stay out of it, unless your brother asks for your advice. Otherwise you will look like the bad guy. Sorry for your situation, just keep yourself out of the mix. this is a messy situation. Good luck and God bless****
2006-11-21 10:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brother. You know it is going to end badly so you owe it to him to give the heads up. When they divorce there will be a rift between you and his wife anyway so why put your relationship with your brother in jeopardy. Family comes first!
2006-11-21 10:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just say you shouldnt be with him after cheating on him and having nothing in common at all and get really bothered for what she was doing to him
2006-11-21 10:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Murphy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not say anything to your brother because if, by chance, they stay together you will be the bad one. getting involved in family marriages can lead to many problems afterwards. You are damned if you do and damed if you don't. Just be careful!!
2006-11-21 10:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay out of troubles but u should give ur brother a hint that his wife is cheating
2006-11-21 10:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by mimi ^____^ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u better stay out of it not to save ur skin rather let ur brother face the truth himself.otherwise he'll depend on u for his decision,tht's not the right thing.just hint him to b careful in his relation.
2006-11-21 10:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by sadia_r2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is your brother, family comes first. If you really think she will screw him over, you owe it to him to give him a "heads up"
2006-11-21 10:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋