Should I tell him?!?!.....?

Question

ok....i think that i could possibly be pregnant....

should i tell my bf now?


or wait till i know for sure?

what should i do?

if i am my parents could send him back to prison...

i dont want that bc i love him

what do you think i should do?
and on top of that i am too young to have a kid!!!
damn i made some stupid choices but to be honest i do NOT regret a single one of them

im just in a hard spot right now and i know its my fault that im there but i dont want judgemental answers bc i will get enough of that from family i just want some oppinions on what i should do now...what would you do if you were in my position?

Answer 1

Get a hom pregnacy kit ASAP. If the results are positive you need to tell him ASAP.

Answer 2

I would find out for sure before I tell him. You do not want to make everybody paranoid before you know for sure. If you are not pregnant, then you should take it as a lesson. It is scary. I am not being judge mental, but I hope you realize that having a child is of course a wonderful thing. It brings a lot of joy into your life, but when the time is right. You will regret not enjoying having a childhood and getting to do all the things that most teenagers do. There is so much time to have children.

If you are, then of course this is something you will have to deal with. And with time your family and friends should support you (emotionally). I will also tell you, it wont be about your man anymore. You do not know if he will stay around to help raise the child, but you will have to put your child's need first, always.

Just wait it out and see what happens. But if I were you I, if I were pregnant, I would seek the support of my family and friends first in your situation.

Answer 3

Go to plan parenthood. They can administer a test that will help you know for sure. At that point, if you find out you are pregnant and want to keep the baby, you should probably tell you parents first. Most young fathers who aren't married to the mother of their children tend to be irresponsible fathers. If you are are young you'll need help raising the child, and your parents will probably be the ones to do that. After that tell your boyfriend.

If you decide you don't want to keep it, it probably is still a good idea to tell your parents. But unless you think he can handle it, I wouldn't tell your boyfriend.

The main thing is to find out if you actually are pregnant. This happens to lots of young girls. Don't let people treat you poorly because you've made decisions they don't understand. Whatever happens, don't forget that everyone makes decisions that sometimes result in bad situations. It doesn't do any good to worry about the decisions you've already made. What will make a difference is the decisions you make now.

Answer 4

You are in quite a jam--sorry. You have more impt. issues to be concerned with now than whether or when to tell your boyfriend. You sound pretty young in view of your concerns related to telling your parents. I suggest you contact the local health dept. for an appt.., the cost will be based on your income and you can be treated and/or examined without your parent's consent. If you're concerned about those things, ask the personnel there when you make an appt. if that is in fact true. Once you are examined by a doctor, you will be able to determine whether you are actually pregnant. At that point the staff can better advise you as to what your options are. I suggest you confirm the pregnancy before you disclose the information to your parents. And if you're not pregnant, you will have the chance to learn more about birth control options for the future. Good Luck.

Answer 5

How about keeping your britches on until you find out for sure! Why cause any more drama to your already filled drama life?

Let's hope your NOT. Then if your not, protect yourself for heavens sakes!

You say you have made mistakes, but don't regret them...........well you will regret having to raise a baby at a young age while the possible daddy is in JAIL!

Hope your not pg. And go buy some damn birthcontrol!!

Answer 6

id wait till you know for shure why scare him away with something that might not be there. most guys specially when they are playing on a thin ice of going to jail will dump you and say the kids not his. and you should respect your self not to be put in a situation that your not going to like the out come of. you say your to young for a kid then your to young to be playing adult games. i take from you you are a younger girl with an older guy? id really re think that if i was you. and you say your parents could send him back to prison what was he there for child molestation? sound like you got a real keeper lol

Answer 7

Wait until you find out for sure. You have to discuss this with him as well as your parents. Don't beat yourself up about the situation at hand just be cautious the next time around and learn from the mistakes.

Answer 8

Find out if you are pregnant first and then deal with it. It looks like the only logical thing, because of your age, is to have an abortion. Your boyfriend should pay for half of it.

Then go on proper birth control.

Then decide if you are really ready for the consequences of this relationship. He doesn't sound like the most outstanding boy. You mentioned jail? Are you underaged and is he a legal adult? If so, your parents should send him back to jail and you are really jeopardizing your future if you don't break it off.

Sex has consequences dear, learn them.

Answer 9

keep it, and after birth, Give the child to your mother, and let her raise it for 10 years.

Meanwhile, focus on your own youth, get a proper education and save some money. Then take the child back.

Talk with your mother first about it. Im sure that theres not a woman on this earth that wouldnt help their daughter in a spot like this. After everything is clear, then tell to bf.

Answer 10

How much time has gone by since you may have conceived? I think you should find out for sure and then tell him, and then tell your parents. You might be surprised at their reaction, they may help you more than you think. This is not something you can really hide from anyone, so just be open and honest and take responsibility for your actions- people will respect this more than you think!