what do u tell a 14 yr old gurl if she is in love wit an 18 yr old boy and he loves her back?

Answer 1

i do not know why every one talk it from the point of having sex with her...

i think you better advice her to:

1- not to have sex with him "she will then know if he just wanted sex or else"

2- she will wait for years to marry him "she is still 14 and i don't think it is allowed to get marry at this age ", if he waited with the same care and love and support will then it is love and he deserve it.

3- if she fears what she do , she will do it behind her parents back , if that is true she should think again about this relation ship.

4- to be mature or not is not how old are you or how do you looks like , if you are mature enough you will know what is responsibility and how to take you decisions , and how good these decisions are

5- mature do learn from other

6- mature to commit to their promises

7- mature do think clearly trying to put their feelings a side.

and for every girls & women in the world

Do Not Have Sex Or Love AnyOne That Is Not Married To You ....

You Are Precious And The One Who Deserves You Is The One Who Can Commit TakingCare Of You And Protect , The One Who Take It Seriously And Who Are Not Affraid Of Marriage Responsibilties....


I swear i want the good for everyone of you although i don't know you

I SWEAR

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Answer 2

To proceed very, very carefully.

First, there's usually a world of difference in the maturity level of a 14 year old and an 18 year old. The fact that they claim to love each other tells me that either she is very mature, or he's not. And it's easier for me to picture an immature 18 year old boy.

Which makes me think that it's easy to imagine them having sex, because she'll probably think she's mature enough to do so, since she's dating someone who's technically an adult. That puts him at risk of statutory rape charges if her parents find out, or if she changes her mind and decides she doesn't like him any more.

I'd say forget about this relationship for 4 years, or at least play it very safe and very cool until she turns 18. If it's meant to be, it'll last until then. If not, the guy may avoid jail time and being listed on a sexual offender's website for the rest of his life.

Answer 3

Do the math, sweetie.

14/18 = 0.77
14*0.77 = 10.8

So, him being in love with the 14-year old is like the 14-year old being in love with someone who was almost 11.

He's after sex, he isn't good enough for someone his own age, and he is trying to impress a younger girl so he can have sex.

Also, if they have sex, he is guilty of child molestation in most states. That means if someone catches him he will have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life.

He doesn't sound very smart, to me.

Answer 4

It relies upon on your state, however the regulations are purely approximately fullyyt for sexual kin, no longer kissing or dancing. In New Jersey, working example, try to be a minimum of sixteen and your companion ought to be interior 3 years of your age so which you could have sexual kin. The term "sexual" ability what it implies. If an 18 year previous dates a 14 year previous, nonetheless, each and every person is going to look at that dating as somewhat knotted up and the couple could locate themselves below scrutiny, inspite of the undeniable fact that it may desire to no longer be unlawful. you could desire to tell your sister that she would have the capacity to come back to you if she is uncomfortable with the 18 year previous she is dating, and additionally you ought to think of roughly talking to the guy. Why is an 18 year previous dating a 14 year previous, and that i'm no longer asserting it would not take place for romance, inspite of the undeniable fact that it rather isn't any longer user-friendly.

Answer 5

i say tell her to take her time or make him take a lie detector test. you don't want to crush her by saying she can't see him. that's one of the worst poss. things u could do. just make sure they're never alone 4 more than 5 minutes.

Answer 6

you tell her to make sure they use a condum. and if you are un happy with the relationship, you should be supportive of it, yet try and tell her and show her that it's not the right thing to do.

Answer 7

go talk to him and see if it works out same situation with me and im happier then ever!!! i love him!

Answer 8

i ask him to taste that

Answer 9

..stagetory.

Answer 10

i say its illegal