SO MY SITUATIONS REALLY VOMPLICATED AND TO cut things short im or was in a relationship with this guy (and its online) and so well...how to put this...sometimes he wouldnt message me for a day or two but ok i knew he could be busy and opn day he didnt reply to any of my messages for a few days and then when I questioned him about it he said I was busy ever thoguht about that...so peoples advice was to completely ignore him the way he is me and I decided to see how long it would take him to unbusy himself...I constantly had the urge to message him but I was angry because he didnt really botrher...and then now hes online and he doesnt have the busy icon on and should I say something like so youre not busy...or just to ignore it? if he rwally cared wouldnt he have messaged me by now? i really wan to say something but then again i know its best to leave it!
2006-11-21 01:35:19 · 7 answers · asked by ██████████ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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once I posted a comment on his page and it was delted and I made a fuss as i thought he deleted it and was uncomfortable with me saying I love you in public and that he migth have someone but he told me it was his friend who did it his hjealous friend was on earlier so if he didnt care he would have told me right? why did he spend time telling me he has a friend that is jealous of us and not just say he didnt want anything....? after that I said I was sorry and that I didnt mean to make such a fuss and not ask first wether he deleted it and why! and after that he ignored me for a few days and then he said he was busy and now Im confused and hes apparently not busy so should I message?
2006-11-21 01:39:11 · update #1
Well....if it was me...I would leave it. Don't message him - you don't want to seem needy. If he can see that you are online then just wait for him to message you. If he doesn't do it after a few days then leave it, forget him and find someone more worthy of your attention!
Good luck.
2006-11-21 01:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally, I would say something. I would give him a piece of my mind then just go offline and ignore it. I would tell him sorry i am busy and don't have time to talk right now. Do to him what he is doing to you. If he really cares, he will come online and stay online with you. Sounds like he is a player and is talking to more than just one person. Good Luck. Because in this busy world you always have time to talk to someone you care about.
2006-11-21 09:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Andie F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him come to you. That way you really know he does want to talk to you and is not just being nice. And if you want, when he finally does message you, you can reply with a :( then he will ask whats with the sad face. And you can explain how you thought he didnt like you. Either way, don't make first contact. There are millions of Fish out out there. Especially ones in your City. Have patience.
2006-11-21 09:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Gyasi M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me ignore him. If he really wanted to talk to you he will. He knows your on line. It happened to me. I was chatting on line with a guy and had been for awhile then one day he just disappeared. I emailed a few times then just gave up. I didn't wait around I started talking to others. About a month later he emailed me and said he was sorry that he had things to work out and would i please forgive him. I did and know we talk all the time and have even been on a few dates and things are going good. Sometimes I get worried when I don't here from him for a day or so but he is busy and so am I. Sometimes us girls just need more reassurance. So just wait it out for a little bit if he wants to talk to you he will. If not move on don't wait around to long for him there ar others who would like to talk to you I'm sure. Good Luck to you.
2006-11-21 09:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I agree with people's advice. Don't message him. He obv doesn't care because if he did then he would have messaged you. I don't think he is worth your time my sweet. Move on. Delete him and block him if you can/want to. I hope you find someone who cares for you
Good luck :-)
2006-11-21 09:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by brumbeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely understand ur desire to say hello but just ignore him!
If he doesn't care it's better to forget about him bc he doesn't deserve you!
2006-11-21 09:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say something u get no where just sitting there
2006-11-21 09:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by what da f**k! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋