Is it possible for someone to fall in love with you in a month of dating them? What is your opinion?
2006-11-21 00:48:57 · 12 answers · asked by MonaLisa 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it has happened to me. Some people have very open hearts and are much more susceptible to falling in love, where others take a much longer time, depending on their past and their age and how guarded they are. When the true chemistry is there that is when it can happen quickly.
2006-11-21 01:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very possible, but scary as hell! Only time will give you the answer you are seeking, however. Both people have to be completely honest. It's scary, because only time will tell if the other is being completely themselves and completely honest and open.
It happened between my husband and me. I think we both knew that there was "something different" from the very first time we ever spoke. After a month, he couldn't take it any longer and bolted. He was too scared of his emotions and getting hurt. I was DEVASTATED and couldn't understand why. We had made no committment or promises. Two months later, we had a per-chance encounter and ended up seeing one another again. It took both of us months and months to become comfortable and secure with our feelings.
A year later, we ended up marrying and today are more happy than the day we married. He's my best friend and dare I say, soulmate. Each and every day, we grow to love one another more and more.
If you're feeling like it's true love, ride it out and see where it goes. Be willing to possibly fall on your face, or end up on the ride of your life with the love of your life! Time is the ONLY thing that will answer your questions. Best of luck.
2006-11-21 02:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by mom of five 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possible but rare. It's probably more of an infatuation. 6 months is a good time to assess the love emotion. That allows enough time for true colors to show. Good luck.
2006-11-21 00:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by eightieschic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The first time I met my wife I knew that we were meant to be together. We had been communicating over the phone / email for a few months (I lived in another city), but when we finally met, I knew she was the one for me. We've been together 7 years and have been married for 5.
2006-11-21 00:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by tipper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, yes,, if you find someone to love you in a month that;s unusual but there is a 50% chance that he want to get in your pants and a 1% chance he love you. life is about ricks you just have to chose carefully..
2006-11-21 00:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by TOYAE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! I fell in love on the first date. No lie!
2006-11-21 02:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean yes and no. if the person really spends time with you and your qualities match, then yes. i mean there is no right amount of time to fall in love. so maybe he thinking your the girl hes prayed for.
2006-11-21 00:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes even in one date
2006-11-21 00:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by Dalia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess passion and love are different things.. passion is something strong.. fast... love is a day to day construction...just my opinion
2006-11-21 01:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by MarriedMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i believ in love at first site, but if you can tell its just for sex then i wouldn't beleive it
2006-11-21 00:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by Marissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋