I am still a virgin, and everytime I meet guys its the same pattern, they run away when I tell them I am a virgin, sometimes I think that there isnt a man out there for me, the guys I meet are either players or they just use me, and then I never see them again. Like this one guy I met two months ago I thought he liked me, he was very charming, took me out like 3 times but later on he came and said he wants to chill with the relationship and he isnt looking for a relationship with anyone right now and lets just be friends, ok, so after a while I messaged him he dont answer and even when I call he also dont answer, so why are guys like this. There is another guy I am friends with, but I told him that I am not ready for that, so he doesnt even want to kiss me, and I think he is just keeping me around because of the sex maybe, so he says he just wants to be friends, but he was married before, so maybe I should say away from married guys. Do you think that God has a plan for me?
2006-11-21 00:45:34 · 16 answers · asked by MB2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
God has a plan for you, but what it is only He knows
2006-11-21 00:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 13⤊ 0⤋
There is most definitely a match out there for you, everyone has a chance in love, it just seems that luck isnt going your way at the moment, but there is no need to worry because God has a plan for you, and no, not all guys are the same, there are genuine guys out there who are looking for a nice girl but are having a hard time themselves in finding one. Don't change who you are for anybody okay, someone is going to come along and will love you for who you are and admire and respect your morals and values as they will have them too. So whatever you do, don't give up hope, don't give up the search for a charming guy because there could be a particular charming guy looking for a nice girl such as you and it would be a bit hard on him don't ya think if you give up and leave it all up to him to try and find you. You will have the guy you are looking for, just stay away from married or divorced men if you can and just hang in there and be patient, good things come in time. Good luck! =)
2006-11-21 08:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so-o-o proud of you for remaining faithful and obedient to the Word of God. Yes, God has a wonderful plan for your life and I'm certain He is very pleased with the way you are resisting the temptation to fall into sexual sin. Please don't give up or become disillusioned with life in this modern society. There is no reason for you to play "follow the leader" when the game is leading you into self-destruction. There are some great guys out there so hold on to your high moral standards and wait patiently for the God-connection that you are meant to have. Again, I am very, very proud of you!!!
2006-11-21 08:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, those guys are probably just using u for sex. not all guys are like that. im a guy and im totally fine with virgins. what's wrong with virgins? whether you're a virgin or not,if they really love you they would not do those things you mentioned. God definitely have a plan for you and never worry about finding the right guy because that "mr.Right" will be standing right before you one day. so don't worry too much. =)
2006-11-21 08:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by Reify 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at first guys are not all the same but eventually it seems to all be the same when it comes to relationships. hold on to ur virginity as long as u can there may be a guy that is a virgin too somewhere out there and holding out just for u. guys like to be turned on and once ur touch or kiss em something usually starts to grow they call it deprived...lol o maybe they are scared off by the halo glare ur sending off. good luck!!
2006-11-21 09:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by red_oassis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that God has a plan for you. Not all guys are the same. I think you'll meet a guy that won't care if you're a virgin. I they run away, than you shouldn't stay with them any way, unless they like you for who they are.
2006-11-21 08:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by AnswerGal6 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
God has a plan for everyone we don't like the sound of that but there is nothing we can do to stop it, if you pray to God and ask him for his guidance he will let you see the Truth in that guy and you will know right there and then what you need to do..
2006-11-21 09:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by TOYAE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are the same, but if you are attracting the same kinds of guys continually, then it's because there's an unresolved issue inside yourself that needs fixing up. One thing that people fail to understand is that we attract people similar to us, so if we are continually ending up with jerks, then there's a jerk side of ourself that we need to confront and defeat. That whole "opposites attract" thing is complete hogwash. And I wouldn't look to religion to solve your issue either...that could also be a HUGE part of the problem, as religion tends to be opposite of human nature. YOU have a plan for you, no one is making any plans for you aside from yourself.
2006-11-21 08:53:05 · answer #8 · answered by Nodtveidt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no not all the guy are the same many guy are not wanting to teach a virgin most guys like girls that have been around the block.. only a few guys like a girl to be pure and untouched.. in my case i rather have a girl pure then a girl that been around the block.. the funny thing is that i married a girl that had been around the block. she just happen to be my sole mate..
2006-11-21 08:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good on you girlfriend! You have something very precious, that you will one day be able to give to the man you love. In the meantime, let all those losers run. God does have a plan for you, and a Mr Right too! Hang in there.
2006-11-21 08:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, not all guys are the same, but you have to pay attention to where you meet them. If you meet all your guys at the night club, then they're probably all going to want to have sex. Youcan find the right kind of guy, but you have to meet him in the right place.
2006-11-21 08:59:50 · answer #11 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋