Being 21 should mean what?

Question

If you love your mother but your boyfriend and mother don't see eye to eye, they want you to choose... what do you do? Besides my mother wont be there for the rest of my life. Im nineteen and want to leave to be with my boyfriend. We have only been together for 9 months but its like ive known him my entire life. Should i be 21 before moving to where i want to?

Answer 1

Unless your mother has given you reason to not trust her, you should always listen closely to what she has to say. And in the first stages of love it always feels like we've known the person all our life (it's a raging hormone thing). Give yourself at least 18 months before making any major relationship decision.

Answer 2

your 19, and your mother has been around for that many years....Besides my mother wont be there for the rest of my life? what kind of mature statement is that! That right there says that you aren't mature enough to move away from home, your just "in love" which is so short lived. You move in together to "play house", when the reality of paying bills, kids popping up, the "fun" will wear off and then you'll be crying to mommy to please move back home, you know to the lady who has your best interest at heart, but that doesn't matter, she won't be there for the rest of your life......be careful the words you use....you may need her, and she won't be there and you'll have to live with what came out of your mouth, That Will be a tough pill to swallow little girl.....

Answer 3

pluck both theri eyes and hold it facing together... in that way you can see it thay they can now look at each other eye to eye.... seriously... sometimes being "inlove" in a very early age reallly.... really hurt the parents.... they move out so early that they cannot prepare...... dont worry... you will come back... if not so soon!!!!

Answer 4

your
old enough drink