there are so many questions on here from us girlies about why you lot treat us so bad (e.g. cheating, lying, etc)
From my experience I have to agree with the rest of the girls....
Whats your opinion please................x
2006-11-21 00:05:40 · 28 answers · asked by pinkkitten 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In answer im 35 not 15!
2006-11-21 00:44:33 · update #1
We are all a bunch of pricks. Don't trust us.
2006-11-21 00:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by petey 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
There was a question a while ago exploring why women are so much more vocal about bad experiences with men (cheating, lying), and statistics posted that 85% of men are at one point in their lives unfaithful.
However it was also posted that 75% of women are also guitly of being unfaithful in the same study. So although we are slightly worse on paper the numbers do suggest that women are as likely to be unfaithful and untrustworthy in the grand scheme of things, so perhaps it's just a tad unfair that so many ladies on Y! get on a soapbox about all men being bast*rds when it seems to be a closer case of even stevens. We blokes just tend to let it go and move on easier, it seems.
I'm not in any way excusing anything a guy has done to hurt you, I just tryin to put a perspective on the on what seems like a distorted version of men's credibility compared to women.
Just thought you'd like to know.
2006-11-21 08:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a laydeee and I know you wanted answers from guys, but i just have to point out that I have only ever had one guy who didn't treat me so well, and as soon as he over stepped the mark he was a gonner!
Maybe some girlies should learn to pick em better and give em the old heave ho, sooner rather than later.
After that I learnt to pick out the good from the bad and the ugly. I have a fab guy and he is my everything.
2006-11-21 08:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Liggy Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree and it is the fault of chrsitianity. Even if the guys aren't christians the effect has influenced any living person. Their doctines that man is superior over woman etc. because of the Eden/apple crap, and that she must be subserviant to man etc. etc. This has led man to beleive that for some reason woman are below him and to be treated as such. The world is slowly moving in the right direct with the emancipation of the woman. As christianity loses its evil grip on the world the true nature and strngths of woman are being recognised. Think only in the work place where a woman's abilities are being recognised and respected. It will take a while though before the full respect is given woman they deserve. Woman have also suddenly been thrown into the spotlight and have to achieve and prove themselves worthy of their rightfull place in the hierachy of the world.
Of course we are physically stronger but not mentally and this freaks us out when things aren't going our way so we take it out on the 'weaker sex'. We have one night stands, verbally (and physically) abuse, look down on, are rude to etc woman because it makes us feel like we are in controll. It's cool. (ya right)
Again it will take time before we actually see the truth and walk in light alongside woman as our equals.
2006-11-21 08:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by PsiKnight9 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You "girlies" want all this special treatment as though you really are quite special because you hold the "sex card", you think; and men want sex. Girlies want babies, men want sex. For the male animal to be forced into monogamy and p-beaten by the female animal, isn't natural, so of course there's going to be lots of cheating and lying going on.
And that's the way it is, when the male animal says differently, remember he's a liar, and a cheat.
2006-11-21 08:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women treat men worse. Women go on about romance and love and all that crap, but all they really want is money, security, house, car etc etc. love doesn't enter into it. Women are the liars, men are pretty honest by comparison.
Qick thumbnail test:
Talk to a married man, ask him why he got married, I'll garantee, love will be near or at the top of the list.
Talk to any married woman, love won't be anywhere in the top ten.
TELL ME I'M WRONG, GO ON, JUST HONESTLY TELL ME..... YEAH, I THOUGHT SO
2006-11-21 20:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by BadWolph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you said one for the guys, but I'm a girlie who thinks this kind of general opinion on guys is unfair. There are lots of nice guys out there who treat girls well, but sometimes get accused of being "too nice"!! I know there are guys out there that do sometimes treat girls bad without reason, but sometimes I think that girls can be too uptight and stroppy and wind guys up! I think it's unfair to generalise anybody and us girlies wouldn't like it if we were all viewed the same! Girls just need to think about the kind of guy they date! If you choose a bad boy then it's to be expected.....
2006-11-21 08:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by Coco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From how you've worded your sentence, I can tell that not only are you a little too young and inexperienced, but you're simply riding social stigmas. When you get to be an adult proper, you'll see that the adult world is much different than the teenager world when it comes to dating and "finding Mr Right" (which is in and of itself a waste of time, look more for "Mr You'll Do" instead).
2006-11-21 08:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by Nodtveidt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It works both ways,all of those complaints are mutual.Ask someone who complains about someone cheating on them if they've ever cheated,and you will get an answer that is always the same.I wouldn't have if they didn't do this.Justification is an excuse for poor behavior,and all genders are guilty of it.
2006-11-21 08:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus christ, if women weren't so gullible and always looking for the wrong kind of guy you'd have no trouble..the majority of you are just headcases who always whinge about the past.....GET OVER IT!!
Women admit it all the time that they like the bad, rough and tumble guys so live with the consequences. Theres plenty of nice guys out there, you just dont want to SEE them.
2006-11-21 08:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by george spencer t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated and never treated a woman badly so please don't agree with the rest ohh and i have been married 23 years with 3 kids so not all men are the same...cheers
2006-11-21 08:21:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋