doesnt love me but people that see us together say they can tell by the way she looks at me she does love me and she calls me when she needs something and other times just to talk and see how i am im a little confused cause i know she is talking to other guys but she tells me they are only friends and that im the only one she wants to have sex with and if she finds out i have had sex with anyone we wont ever get back together. i love her more than i have ever loved anyone and we have been together for over 3 years, i told her yesterday i would wait for her and i have interfered with her guy friends cause i dont want anyone messing with her. i mean she and i had sex yesterday cause she called me and wanted to meet me so we could but i dont know what i should do. i mean like i said i love her so much and i know she loves me she just seems to be running from it and i am about 24 years older than her but even her mom says she still loves me so someone please help im confused should i wait
2006-11-20 23:28:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is just confused and will come around soon.
2006-11-20 23:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by bor_rabnud 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hey there,
For a start, age isn't a problem. There is 30 years between me and a guy I am seeing and although it causes problems, we never feel the age gap.
And why is she calling you? Because she still loves you. No you shouldn't wait. If you love her, tell her. A relationship with just sex is only ever going to cause problems, and if she calls you everyday anyway, she is obviously going to get hurt if you meet someone else, so in a way its like you are together anyway.
My advice is to sit down and chat with her and find out what you both want from this relationship, talk over the phone if its easier.
She sounds a nice girl and she obciously still has strong feelings for you as you are on her mind a lot.
Go for it, you only have the sex to lose.
2006-11-20 23:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are 24 years older than what she is, don't you think her friend might be making fun about it. Do you think it could be your age diff. which is starting to bother her, ask her. If so then i wouldn't call it love. My boyfriend is also much older than what i am, and yes people do comment about it but if she really cares then that is not suppose to make any difference in your relationship with her. There is no use in wonder why she is being that way but to ask her could give you a better answer than what anybody could give you. Good luck and all for the best!!
2006-11-20 23:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by SA Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're writing as if you are some juvenile puppy smitten in love---get a grip dude!!! You're 24 yrs older than she is? Man that would be like me dating my father!!!
I really think you should put this relationship on HOLD---no pulling down the pants and doing the nasty---by just putting the relationship in check and not putting yourself in the position of the SEX relationship only. At this point this is what your relationship is...a booty call..
Have respect for yourself----don't make yourself so available !!!! Find someone closer to your age to date and be around----You say she has many male friends...maybe you should start by having many female friends in your age bracket!
2006-11-20 23:36:27 · answer #4 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait-a-hold-it. You're 24 years older than she is? Wow, unless she's 40 or older, this is a might unbalanced relationship. You're old enough to be her Dad, ferchrissakes. Doesn't that set off alarms -- if not in you or in her, but in her Mom who, you report, is aware of this relationship?!
It's obvious she wants to have friends in her age range but feels most comfortable with you, for whatever somewhat perverse reason (you're a father-figure, perhaps). While this relationship may be comforting and comfortable for both of you in the short run, in the long run, it is damaging to her. She needs to be with peeps her own age -- and so do you.
2006-11-20 23:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what mother lets her daughter date someone that is 24 years older? You need to move around man...get someone your age or about 10 years younger than you. The only way this is happening is if you got a bank roll. And you are paying for it.
2006-11-21 00:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by Dirty Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 11:37:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you robbing the cradle or something? Are you seriously 24 years older than her? Thats just wrong to me for some reason. But if its love who am I to argue? I say you talk to her and find out what she is really looking for. If she isn't willing to commit and be serious with you and you are on the level you are on it isn't worth it.
Sorry to say, but just use your good judgment.
2006-11-20 23:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by sethro722000 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If yall are still in love and still doing the wild thang, then why are yall BROKE UP??
Is this so you can both be free to screw whoever you want and not feel guilty?
Either be broke up or be together, but this in between stuff will ruin you both!
2006-11-20 23:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would really rethink this relationship. It seems to me she just uses you as a sex buddy. Others might confuse her lust with love maybe. Have a chat with her and do not let her misuse your feelings for her. You are worth someone who loves you just as much as you love them, so tell her that!
2006-11-20 23:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by Lady_Bug 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are 24 years OLDER than this GIRL? Let her run free- you don't sound even mature enough to have a GIRL friend.
2006-11-20 23:31:21 · answer #11 · answered by onesmaartlady 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋