The first time my boyfriend and I were intimate he told me he loved me. Is that possible for someone to love you the first time your'e together? We've been together a few months now but it's hard for me to really believe that he loves me because of what he said the first night.
2006-11-20 21:41:16 · 17 answers · asked by MedicineWoman 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not only is it possible for someone to love you the first time you're intimate, it's also more likely that the person loved you beforehand. Ya silly!
2006-11-20 21:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will come across many guy's who will tell you they love you just to get into you'r pants, but then again if you'r still together maby he really ment it when he said that he loves you. Ask your self the question- why do you douth he's love for you? Isn't there more to this than just the fact that he told you that he loves you on the fIrst night you were intimate? ONLY TIME WILL TELL!!!!
2006-11-21 06:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not love, because love could not develop in just one day, it takes months or years to feel...Love at first sight is not true..Or even love at first night...You could only love a person if you have a deep connection with him that could only have in months or years.And you could not love a person without knowing him at all. Love is not a quick feeling, it is a slow process of developing an affection and devotion for the one you want to be with for the rest of your life. If love develops in rush process then it could not last forever...Time is needed and not just the great feeling of thinking that you love the person.Love needs time.Hope i could help you,thats all!
2006-11-21 05:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I've been with my BF for 8 yrs & we didn't tell each other that we loved one another for about a year. You know what you feel in your heart and you can't change that feeling. But maybe he was just expressing what he felt at that moment. It's really hard to tell. Take care
2006-11-21 05:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is love when you cannot stop thinking of that person.. same as you cannot wait to see them again.. what did he say? did he say he loved you.. well if he did than reply to him i love you to. if he say something meanful show him that you respect it and always return the favours some time when you are together.. little words can mean alot to a guy.. especially i miss you.. i love you.. and so on.. just depend on how you and your boyfriend feel for eachother and that be fine
2006-11-21 05:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what did he say the first night? And I do believe someone can love you after the first night it happens.
2006-11-21 05:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are having an intimate session it is normal for a guy or a girl to tell those things... but dont believe it and dont take it seriously... take time to be with him and understand him better...
only then will you know if he is true to his words or not
2006-11-21 05:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by richard k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Word love is to get you to bed , first night in bed is many words "I love You" after few months is only sexual exercise without words.
Some people are not romantic and they don't understand LOVE.
2006-11-21 05:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its possible considering you have been together for a few mnths, sex does have an effect but he was probably waiting for the intimacy to be sure that everything was in order before telling you his feelngs, i think he does love you.
2006-11-21 05:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
these sort of thoughts simply need to be talked about so they don't fester in your mind and ruin good things. Simply ask him. Make him tell you what he really feels. Communication really shouldn't be all that hard.
2006-11-21 05:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by lair_dweller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋