Me and my girlfriend have not been talking for the past week because.. 1. i did not tell her i was going out with the boys, onr of her friends saw me and obviously told her..2. kept saying sorry to her and did not give her a reason why, now she fells i cheated on her and thats why i keep saying sorry and thats kinda why.. I love her to bits and dont want to ever loose her. what should i do for our relationship to go back to how it was.
2006-11-20 21:39:25 · 6 answers · asked by Dirty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest all the time. Lie has short legs - you should know.
2006-11-20 21:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tel her what you wwere up to. your story seems like you were seen with another girl and if that is the case, tell her that it was not what it looks like. However, if you were really out with the boys, tell her that sometimes she has gotta trust you cz u love her and would never do anything to hurt her.Also i think that you should talk to her about her security fears that she seems to have and tell her that you need space sometimes.
2006-11-20 21:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by Iriskent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She trusted you and you deceived her by not telling her you were going out, now it sounds like she lost that trust and is going to question you about everything. Time for you to work on gaining it back. Without trust it will be he ll on both of you.
2006-11-20 21:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by MedicineWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in the same boat as me.. my boyf didn't talk to me for a month and just recently text me a message.. I decide to call him and ask him to come out and later give him a huge hug and say "never leave me again" and if he smile i will forget what happen before and move on while knowing I still got him in my life. but I wouldn't mind waiting for him to contact me if he wanted see me. And for you if she really loved you still, she would contact you and ask you to go out with her, if she say yes, go for it! and explain why you havent contacted her and surprise her with her favourite flowers and maybe treat her to dinner and make her trust you again
2006-11-20 21:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by SimileyDaisy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first..you have to understand that girls are really sensitive...if i were your gf..i would probably feel the same...why would you not tell me...we're in a relationship right...maybe she's just hurt because she thinks you're doing something that could ruin your relationship..best advice...comfort her...dont do that again...be more sensitive dis tym...be thoughtful...but dont be too extravagant..just simple yet meaningful..
2006-11-20 21:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her read this Question!
2006-11-20 21:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by mr_dark_eyed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋