A friend of my is a financial disaster and will most likley end up in jail if he continues in the wrong direction. He know's I have my **** together financially and he likes getting back at me by going after women I'm interested in... They guy is much better looking then myself and gets more booty then a toilet seat.....
Can anyone realate to this.....Its so annoying a frustrating. I just don't understand it.
2006-11-20 20:56:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure of the age of women you guys are going after but lets put it this way... Women of the younger persuasion are not the brightest. Rather then charm, stablity and sensitivity, those younger girls go after money, looks and 'bad ***' personalities. All that really gets them is herpes and black eyes.
Once those girls hit the right age and have been ridden more times then Seattle Slue, they realize, "I've waisted x amount of years being a dumbass" and then go try and find that one guy who was always nice to them who's now dating the hottest chick from his college biology lab who now has a government grant for 100,000 dollars a year.
Karma works it was out man.
I've got friends who's 'magic number' of girls they've been with triples mine, but the ones I've been with have been special and will always be remember. More importantly, remembered by fond memories, not the burning sensation when I pee.
Imagine that...
2006-11-20 21:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by Joshua T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women are naturally drawn to guys that need help. We want to fix them and help them. It is the nuturing nature of us. A guy with all their **** together obviously doesn't NEED us. We want to be needed. I know this is wrong and warped thinking but thats what I have observed. I have even been guilty of it. The physical attraction actualy means nothing in the end and a financially secure guy is a far better choice. If the women you are interested in are distracted by him they obviously arent ready for a REAL man, so bide your time until the right woman with her head screwed on comes along.
Be sure you dont tell him who you are eyeing off so he cant jump in on you. Also if he keeps doing this then he isnt a friend...ditch him.
2006-11-20 21:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fundamentally..........I think it's got more to do with the fact that he's out there playing the game rather than his looks or your money.
I hate to say it but I've seen some of the ugliest men go home with the most beautiful women purely because they have the balls to ask and aren't afraid of the knock-backs. I'm sure they can't all be city brokers with rolls of cash...............it's because they play the numbers game.
Be more confident and assertive around women.........that's the trick.
2006-11-20 21:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life sucks like that sometimes. Sorry to say your going to have to wait it out for a few years until guys like that are actually in jail or in serious debt. They will eventually realize they were wrong and you will have the last laugh.
2006-11-20 21:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Examining the relationship between male dominance and female preference from a scientific standpoint, I conclude that when a female had to watch an aggressive interaction between a pair of males preferred the loser of an encounter to its winner. This superficially perverse female preference for losers may be explained by the strong correlation between the success of a male in aggressive interactions with other males and the frequency with which he engages in courtship behaviors that appear potentially injurious to females. By choosing to affiliate with the less-dominant male, the female may lose direct and indirect benefits that would accrue from pairing with dominant males. However, they also avoid the cost of interacting with potentially harmful, more aggressive males.
2006-11-20 21:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sky Li 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, women when see guy, she always look by his look. when a man is so hot, of course many women more interest with him
however, when we know what kind of type that your friend is, you can sure about it that a lot of women dump him
if we (me) want to have fun, we go for hot man
but if we (me) want to have a serious relationship we go for 'normal' (like just cute, care about us, friendly, take care about us, you just average man)
man
because i want a man who can protect me not only just for fun
2006-11-20 21:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by catlovers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you knwo they have nothing going for them. Sometimes though its cos women feel worthless, its how they have been treated and what people have said about them.
2006-11-20 21:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have met the wrong girl,not all girls are the same but if she care about u enough she didnt run in ur friend's arms.try to talk to her to see what is that she really wants,with who she wanna be.but about ur friend i dont think u can call it a friend.they dont do such things
2006-11-20 21:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're just as superficial as men.
2006-11-20 21:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill. no point getting pissed for this. you lose out in the end. just let it go. you'll find the girl whos really meant for you when its time.
2006-11-20 21:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by destinyofangels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋