I have such a problem. Every time I meet a new guy I know (feel) how our relationships with him will end. This may sound interesting and useful but it doesn't seem to me like that! I always know if he loves me or not (at least it seems to me I can feel what he feels) and if we will be together or not. The problem is that I still fall love with him. This is so hard to fall in love knowing you won't be with the person! Maybe you could give me some advice.
Thank you very much!
Maria
2006-11-20 19:06:51 · 8 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Do you never buy anything that tastes good because you know you'll just swallow it anyways? No you not go to a movie because it will end? I think you need to shift your focus a little...
You can read people and are intelligent. I'll give you that. But you can't enjoy the present if you head is stuck in the future. Instead of turning yourself into a victim of fate, use some of that brain power to make it work. best wishes.
2006-11-20 19:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Odindmar 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maria,I don't understand "infatuation" except it come from a womans "i want you to love me",it overwhelms a man and I think the woman also. this condition only lasts a short while and if a couple do not establish a close, trully loving relationship then it will dissolve when the ardor of infatuation is over. The essence of our being is unconditional love but the mental concepts of duality will divide this LOVE into conditional love/ hate whereby we become attached & possesive, I love you "if" and "if" you don't my love turns to hate. Unconditional love is a total giving,expecting nothing it return,Like sunlight it just shines, not binds.
2006-11-21 03:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by Weldon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that you're usually attracted to the same type of person? If that's true, then you're essentially dating the same guy over and over. That would account for your intuition, and would also make it pretty likely that things with the next guy would work out a lot like things with the last one.
Why not see what it's like to date someone who doesn't fit that description, and see what happens?
All the best!
2006-11-21 03:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by Let Me Think 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that you have some problem with relationships so you intuit a reason for the breakup and then help that reason become true?
Just something to think about.
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2006-11-21 03:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by Alan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Savour each moment with him. What is important is you shared love.
2006-11-21 03:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by mared 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I diagnose this as a case of acute TSTL.
2006-11-21 03:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Wise1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've dealt with this before, myself. Just cherish the experience for what it is. From it you will learn so you will be prepared for your real soulmate. :)
2006-11-21 03:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by kristalshyt 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Can't help you there. If you KNOW and you still do it... Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me...
2006-11-21 03:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋