So about a week and a half ago I hooked up with this guy at a party, we did some dirty and then he went home. I never thought I'd talk/see him again but now he texts/calls me asking to hang out. So I say sure, when? and he never says anything back. I wouldn't mind hanging out with him, but why does he ask and then not follow through? I know it's just a sex thing and I don't care.
2006-11-20 19:05:47 · 10 answers · asked by Meagan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't care about him wanting sex, cuz I'm only really looking for the friends with benefits deal. I'm a horny college student, not a ho.
2006-11-20 19:11:32 · update #1
he wants you to call him back. Kinda like trying to get u take the intiative.
2006-11-20 19:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by lime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's not sure, or weirded out about trying to date after he already got the goodies. He doesn't want to seem like a sleaze, that he just hit and went, and he's trying to make an attempt to at least be friends? Give it some time, he may have other stuff going on right now....
2006-11-20 19:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trippin ya - and you're letting him. When he texts, you, just send back "later", and if it's interested he'll come closer -
BTW, hope he doesn't have an STD - the gift that gives forever - and is sex so important that you'll risk your life for it? The easy sex means that no one needs to really connect to you, just turn you on - how sad.
2006-11-20 19:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he thinks he should ask you out. If he hasn't followed through then I would find another "friend".
2006-11-20 19:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that his phone got disconnected or something. don't jump to any rash conclusions. give him a little time
or he might have a girlfriend and she saw his texts to you...maybe he is waiting for that to blow over before he contacts you again
2006-11-20 19:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i personally think that if he said that he wanted to hang out and then all of a sudden didnt reply or follow thru with wat he wanted then obviously ur either too easy or he's just an asshole who wants pussy really bad and wants to get aids.
2006-11-20 19:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by sWe3tVaNgUrL17 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he just wants to hit it and you want to be the ho to let it happen.
2006-11-20 19:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you didn't care you wouldn't waste the keystrokes, right?
2006-11-20 19:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by Old Cripple 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
his mobile out of credit or out of battery.
2006-11-20 19:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a loser
2006-11-20 19:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by brett l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋