Ok, here is some info... We both work at the same place as well as some co-workers that are mutual friends. A few days a ago we got into a big fight about us well, always figting. Anyway during this time one of her friends that I work with a little texted me that she liked me. I told her that Im wasnt upset at it but I didnt think it was a good idea to be talking to her cause I didnt like her nor did I want to hurt my girlfriend. Anyway yesterday my gf and I made up and were really doing great when she found out that her friend had told me that she likes me. She is mad cause I didnt tell her, which I know I should have done. But I didnt cheat on her or nothing close to that, but she thinks she cant trust me and it seems that she might break up with me. Right now I cant sleep and cannot think about anything but her, I love her more than anything on earth and I want her to know that. PLZ, plz help. Thank you in advance...
2006-11-20 19:00:43 · 5 answers · asked by Bryan W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's completely dumb on her part. Maybe you should have told her, but the fact of the matter is you didn't act out on it. You actually told the friend that you didn't like her like that. Hopefully your girlfriend will come to her senses. Guys get hit on all the time, you can't freak when some other girl hits on your man. It's bound to happen, if she can't trust you because of that then she has issues. That's small stuff, believe me.
2006-11-20 19:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by DepthsOfMyEyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend has directed her anger at the wrong person. Hopefully, she will come to realize that you are a likable person and she'll have to deal with such a thing maturely. Some people take longer than others to realize that jealousy is non-productive thinking. If you love each other...you have to decide to trust each other now and learn kind habits to each other and communicate plenty! Peace.
2006-11-20 19:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the little things that count in a relationship, sure everyone loves the big things occasionally, but the little things keep it going strong.
But in the mean time you should defiantly apologize to your girlfriend, tell her that you didn't mention her friend liking you because you knew they were such good friends and felt it was out of your rightful place to tell her and break their relationship because you feel somewhat responsible for being so darn irresistible. lol.
2006-11-20 19:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by Pandoooo;. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to get hold of that gurl n tell frankly infront of yr gfrend that u dont love/like her.....yr gurlfrend will be convinced.j...ust be sure not to be harsh wid that gurl....be straight forward n after that, shower love n sweetness o yr gfrend....gudluk!
2006-11-20 19:18:40 · answer #4 · answered by Glamorous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while you & ur GF plus that girl around, show ur love to your GF but reject that girl on spot. To let her know what you feel about her.
2006-11-20 19:05:07 · answer #5 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋