Sometimes I feel like guys look at me as a play thing. Am I just imagining things. Or are men really trying to play me?
2006-11-20 17:32:24 · 19 answers · asked by fe2bsho 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It might be a little of both. There probable have been men out there that have looked at you like a play thing and you have noticed it and when other men look at you are you are not sure why they are looking at you.
Be confident when a man looks at you. Do not let them treat you in any way that you do not want to be treated like. If they think they can play you let them know then can not.
2006-11-20 17:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly so, most of the men, I would say 99% or even more think the way you described. If allowed they will keep screwing everybody they want.
Cheer up lady, embrace the fact that men will stay like this only, they have never changed and never they will in future. So why to lose sleep on the things which you can't control.
It is irritating for sure, but you have to find a balanced approch to this situation by just trying to avoid those eyes.
In the last as they say, why men can't make eye contact with women? Becasue breast don't have eyes.....
Have fun....
2006-11-20 17:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men most of the time are dogs and yes they probably do look at you like a toy.a nice trick dress down and they wont notce so much i'm not saying all the time but if you want a brake also thats how you find the true ones
2006-11-20 17:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by tracemiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only "a piece of meat" if that's the way you let guys treat you.
2006-11-20 17:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that way. Probably you are a play thing to them.
2006-11-20 17:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by Evil Atheist Conspirator 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can not play what is not out for grabs.
in otherwords you can not be used if you dont put yourself in that situation to be used.
of course you are just a piece of meat if you give it up without commitment.
2006-11-20 17:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on if you act like a plaything or not. Do you choose guys based upon if they are cute or not or do you go for the guys who can actually carry on a conversation?
2006-11-20 17:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are. The trick is to find the nice ones(like me, if I do say so myself;) amidst the walking cocks who just want to get in your pants...
2006-11-20 17:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by Elminster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a sense you are..
Many men simply want to have sex with you and
are not looking for any long term relationship..
It is up to you to be discriminating and only have
sex with those with potential for a honest long term relationship.
If you have sex with every man who wants you, you will
lose your value & femininity..
2006-11-20 17:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably are. But your blessed. Remember, the ugly ducklings would kill to have what you have.
Enjoy what has been given to you. If you're looking for a man to care about you holistically then be picky. Be conservative. If he's worth it, he will become what you want him to be.
EA
2006-11-20 17:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋