Plz help me seriously im crying?
my bf abused me coz his best friend is all the time proving him tht im a cheap gurl n im very bad n not worth talking etc. now he has started believing him. his friend proved him tht i went on a date with another guy on 5th nov. whereas i was very sick tht day n was all day at home with my parents.he believed him n abused me through text mesging. he had stopped calling me 4-5 months back n now stopped looking at me n mesging me even. tht frind is always with him. i cant contact him coz he has abused me im totally helpless now. i loved him so much but his friend has done so bad . WILL MY BF EVER CONTACT OR MESG ME NOW OR...??? I CRY SO MUCH N MISS HIM SO MUCH. I HAV NEVER THOUGHT OF ANYONE ELSE EXCEPT HIM BUT HE DIDNT BELIEVE ME. WILL HE CONTACT ME??? PLZ HELP SERIOUSLY WILL HE EVER FEEL IM NOT BAD? DO SUCH GUYS CONTACT THEIR GF AGAIN???
2006-11-20 17:19:09 · 8 answers · asked by saikiena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*** listen...if he believes his friend over what u tell him then u really don't need him in your life anymore. you'll find someone who really loves u...just stop crying and forget this loser.
2006-11-20 17:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that he is worth your time. If he beleives a friend over you, that proves he doesn't trust you enough to ask you about the things that you are being accused of.
Since this seems to be the case I'd drop him if I were you. He isn't worth your time. Do not contact him, if he calls you, ask him why he doesn't have the guts to ask you about something before out right acussing you of something.
That should get the message accross without to much fuss.
Hope this helps.
2006-11-20 17:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all im sorry to hear what happend. but if he doesnt feel the same way about you then hes a loser. i know thats not what you want to hear but really if hes going to be like that and believe his "friend" of his Girlfriend then let him go. this friend doenst like you...and your so called man has proven him self to you. hes proven that he cares more about his friends then you. i know it hurts but you have to let him go. it will be best for you. ask your self this if he comes around will he take off again??will another friend come between you??? why would you want to be with a man a so called man who hurts and makes you cry???? listen dear listen to irreplaceable by beyonce.... you can do better. with out trust there is no relationship.
2006-11-20 17:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him so bad you must love abuse. You get what you deserve. There is no help for you. This will be the pattern of your entire life unless you can learn to respect yourself.
violet46 has some good advice I suggest you follow it.
2006-11-20 17:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, I'd suggest you break up with the guy and never contact him again. Then, I recommend you get counseling of some kind. It will help you cope with your feelings and get your self esteem back. You don't deserve to feel this way!
2006-11-20 17:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by violet46 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh Jeez get a life!! There is more to life than boy friend crap.
2006-11-20 17:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Evil Atheist Conspirator 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's not worthy for you coz he's can't even TRUST you.
2006-11-20 17:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-11-20 17:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋