im 5 months pregnet and my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex anymore. we would do it all the time and it makes me feel really bad like im ugly and fat and thats why he doesn't want me and i wonder if he is sleeping with someone else he always says hes to sleepy or he just isn't in the mood please help me is he cheating or do i make him sick please help me
2006-11-20 17:06:21 · 13 answers · asked by taken 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he is worried about hurting the baby. you should talk to him and foind out why he is acting different. tell him how you feel and discuss his feelings as well. it may just be that some thing is on his mind.
2006-11-20 17:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by Kuraimizu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you need to have a heart to heart. be totally honest with him and let him know. try not to turn on the water works and try to be calm and rational but have a talk with him. it could be any combination of things, whether it is indeed him cheating, or him being turned off by the pregnancy (in which he is a dick, and you need to know how absolutely beautiful you are! pregnant woman are the most gorgeous women you'll ever meet. you may not feel that way but he could never pull off the extra weight and the swollen all over like you can!!!!!) or it could also be he's getting more and more scared. i'm sure he's just as scared of this baby coming as you are! so just have a talk with him and go from there.
2006-11-20 17:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he's afraid that he might hurt the baby if you have sex. Some men get like that. Also, with the birth getting closer, men start looking at you in a motherly sense instead of a sexual one. You're about to became the mother of his child and that can be overwhelming.
I'm just guessing here. What you need to do is talk to him and tell him how you feel. He's supposed to be there for you and comfort you in your time of need. You shouldn't be suffering alone. It's not good for you or the baby.
2006-11-20 18:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No sweetie you aren't ugly. Definitely not fat. One day look around when you are out and about and catch the glances you probably get from guys. Maybe he is feeling unsure about himself. BUT the best person you can ask is him. If he is cheating he is not worth your time or effort. Then you can do better but before you go there. Take great care of yourself and the baby. BIG HUG!!!
2006-11-20 17:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do not find pregnant women attractive...but then there are guys who love pregnant women. Now that you are showing more...some men think they will hurt the baby if you have sex. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. You dont need the added stress_
2006-11-20 17:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you pregnant, living with baby's father and not married ?
You have climbed out on a limb and sawn it off behind yourself...
Yes, there is something wrong with b/f...
You have a problem..
You have a serious problem because you have no legal protection.
B/F has obviously changed his mind about wanting a child and does not seem to find pregnant women to be attractive...If he is not cheating now, he may be cheating soon....
I am so sorry and you have my sympathy...
I personally find pregnant women to be delightful...
2006-11-20 17:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
some guys are just like weird if it is there first time being a daddy. sometimes it has nothing to do with the way you look. sometimes it is cause they dont know what is safe for the baby and other concerns. because sometimes guys do not know how to share there feelings they leave us gals thinking. good luck.
2006-11-20 17:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, perhaps you need to talk to your boyfriend about this...Remember that you're body hormones is changing and you tend to get more emotional than before...So be sure to talk to your bf about any feelings you have for support...
As for your bf lack there off...He might have other feelings or insecurities regarding your pregnancy...
It's time to just ask him and find out a solution sweety.
2006-11-20 17:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by $&$& 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm I doubt it is because of your looks.
Probably he is pretty damn scared now about a kid coming and everything. How old are you 2?
Sounds like he probably wants to find a way out of it , but doesnt' wanna leave you wheile your preganant because then he'll look like an jerk to other women.
2006-11-20 17:09:45 · answer #9 · answered by travis R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this guy has no sense of comittment, i believe, but I can't tell if he's cheating.
I think that you must not be alone, pregnancy is temporary anyway, just wait 4 the baby to be born and then you'll see if he still likes u
2006-11-20 17:10:17 · answer #10 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋