2006-11-20 16:56:50 · 8 answers · asked by lola b. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it's definitely different and dependent on which one of my friends I'm talking to.
The married guys:
Mainly what she's like and what kind of reputation she has. Whether it would be a good idea for me to date her or not.
The single guys:
How do you think she is in bed? Who else has she dated? What does she do for work? Is she hot?
Yeah, so I go to my married buddies when asking them what they think of a girl I'm interested. They've saved me some headaches. My single buddies have gotten me into trouble by telling me to go for it for the wrong reasons. Then they rip on me for it later. Jerks. LoL
2006-11-20 17:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by Martin H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When ever I'm with my friend and the topic is a girl that one of us likes the first thing that comes to my mind is how great it feels when you just have the opportunity to see her whether it was in school, park or by walking down the street. I know that me and my friend always talk about how elegant she is but how I can't have her because she likes someone else. I can't help but talk bout how wonderful she looked today no matter what she was wearing, she just seems to become beautiful and beautiful by each passing moment you see her, and how jealous I feel when I see her talking to her friend, knowing that that will never be me and her.
2006-11-21 01:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by big_a_udsi1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, it's usually not a group discussion.
Guys only talk to one or two of their guy friends, one on one, about girls. If it's a group discussion, it's about sex, how hot someone is, what they claim to have done, but have even come close to it, ect.
When it's one on one, from my experiences, it's about how much we like them and for what reasons. Pending on how much we like this girl, it's probably alot of little things that amaze you about the girl in discussion and how much you both have in common.
It's never bad and the great thing is that if the feelings are strong, and the friend makes a rude gesture or comment, the guy who's fawning over the girl always says, "It's not like that" or plays it off because he's serious about making things work.
2006-11-21 01:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by Joshua T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hehe hardly ever do guys talk about "oh that girl you like".
Mostly the conversation sounds somthing like this.
Guy 1: How's Katie?
Guy 2: "Fine I guess she's giving me some crap about not calling her again"
Guy 3: Did you get some from her after you went to the movies last week?
Guy 2: "Nah she was all pissy about her mom or somthin"
Guy 1: So are you going out now or what?
Guy 2: I don't know I guess so
Guy 3: Yeah that sucks. I got some from Jill last night. She scrapes when she gives head though
Guy 1: HAHAHAH! Sucks to be you. I heard that she did that to Brad too
Guy 3: Huh? Brad nailed her? Oh great now I gotta talk to her again knowing that? Thanks dick!
Guy 1: So you Dumping Katie now or what?
Guy 2: I don't know, but her constant complaining about her mom is pretty annoying. If that keeps up I'm gettin rid of her.
2006-11-21 01:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by travis R 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If someone in my circle starts talking about a girl they like, the first topic is usually how the girl looks. Looks isn't the only thing guys care about, but it is usually the first thing. It is our nature. After we get a picture about what the girl looks like, then the conversation can shift to any number of things, from how they plan to get her in the sack to her personality and behavior to how she compares to girls of the past. Personally, after looks, I usually like to focus on a girl's personality. I recognize that women are whole people with their own unique thoughts, feelings and experiences, and I'm interested in understanding them. Also, I don't care how beautiful a girl is, an ugly personality will make her ugly in my eyes.
2006-11-21 01:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if we actually talk about a girl that like u if akward cus that doesnt realy happen, but when it does you talk about how beautiful she is, whose she been with, why u shouldnt be with her, how smart or dumb she is, if shes virgin or ho, where will u take her, what will u do with her, tell him theres better out there and if u wanna know more feel free to contact me and il let u know all you want. oh and i hope i gt ur best answer award
2006-11-21 01:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by CHICHO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to win her heart.
2006-11-21 00:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex.
2006-11-21 00:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by NRPQUE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋