Why do guys act/treat you like you are broken if you have-?

Question

Bilateral Bunions- genetic
Blind eye- yes it moves with the other: )
Small breasted or have implants

Yes, I guess it would help to be drop dead gorgeous but hey-- genetics again....can't win them all...but..am still in the human race: )

I am all grown up and more like a hard working duck: )
I am healthy,strong....
In todays society perfection seems to be everything: (

Bunions are a bone deformity...they are als common in wem who wear high heeled shoes: )

Ryan G- their reaction when they find out....

I tell because I rather have them accept who and what I am from the start than waste my time and there's, than to find out later- umm your not exactly my type because of it...or they find out later and think I wasn't honest with them: )

Answer 1

Well im confused. if genetics are to blame and surely your basing your statement on generalizing. (perfectly acceptable) Do you know what its like to be treated not broken? Would you be able to tell the difference? If a guy treated you completely great.. would you assume that he was treating you overlynice, and come to the conclusion that he believes you to be broken? or is it more like Nobody aproaches you or even cares to becuase of these circumstances?

lack of understanding, regardless of the reaction you must expect some kind of reaction.. becuase it is simply not standard. How they treat you after may really be you misunderstanding them (even though it probably isnt) lets say it is :)
You could always just sigh and be like "look im not broken, it was never right" (jokingly) im not sure how they would feel nor you but at least its out there.
I personally have seen some godawfully ugly people.. like im talking the ugliest lady i know.. (thats mean) but she has a husband..decent looking at that and somehow i guess that kind of is like.. well, surely there is someone for everyone.. god you should see the gremlin of a kid too eek.. besides the point. (im serious FREAKY lookin kid)

your eye may be an issue for people but the other stuff isnt, its common things that almost go un noticed.. but how can someone not notice your eyes first and foremost? eye contact is essential in all relations, be proud of it ;) your unique why would you want to be treated like everyone else.. i mean really look at it guys just dont treat girls all that great in general...

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well to be honest Bilateral Bunions sounds really bad. actually it sounds worse than it really is. Sounds like a freaky thing that could be contageous.. lol... depending on age and education people will assume things... becuase they dont know what it is.

small breasts and/or implants isnt an issue..
just you wait and see

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so few answers for you.. ill ask a few times at different times in the day, just for you.. ;)

-im sure im correct in everything im saying, i cant make people answer my questions though lol good luck..

btw.. Im trying to help because I find this question interesting and im curious why you feel that way.. not becuase i think your incapable or broken (but sure keep thinking that thought! whatever!) :P is your hair that color? it could be the problem maybe?

Answer 2

Wow... all of those? that's weird.

Let's see. I don't know what bilateral bunions are. I'm guessing they're genetic lumps on your feet, and the man you met doesn't want to pumice them off for you all the time.

Blind Eye: Because you usually don't need to tell him that in the first place, and if you do, it's because you're insecure about it (and possibly other things as well.)

Small breasted with implants? That means you throw money away on surgeries that do nothing.

Small breasted: well, lots of guys like large breasts. Try for older men, the big breast thing is usually more common among immature guys.

Implants: They're afraid you'll throw their money away on other pointless surgeries... or it's because women who think they need to get cut up just to be loved are emotional train wrecks to begin with.

Answer 3

You're hanging out with the wrong guys!! Seriously, where do you meet guys? You might need to change directions and take up a new kind of hobby so you can meet some smarter guys. And I don't mean try a new bar instead of the old bar... (or go from rock climbing to bungee jumping)... I mean, try something entirely different.

Answer 4

Men are visual creatures. If they don't like the outside, they won't bother to get to know what's inside. It's not right or fair, but that's just the way it is. Not every man is that shallow though, so don't think that you will never find someone to accept you as you are.

Answer 5

Well, any guy worth your precious time won't be bothered about a few minor glitches. You'll know when you find Mr Right, because he won't give any of those things a second thought. Take care : )

Answer 6

if he needs his distance, provide it to him. according to hazard he will decide what became into incorrect and verify out to get you returned. at the same time because it is going on, you may heavily analyze what you may've probable completed incorrect. do no longer at once say to your self which you probably did no longer something incorrect. fairly, fairly, fairly think of roughly it. any annoying behavior, any stupid issues that have been mentioned, something.

Answer 7

Because they are either a$$holes or you lean on those things too much and throw a constant pity party which no one wants to be around.

Answer 8

Just remember the story about the "Ugly Duckling" Who grew up to be a "Beautiful Swan"!

Answer 9

cus we like to get the best, most of us are shallow but u gota treat urself like ur hard to get and give the guys a lil flrit but not to much and then ul have them, trust me cus ufd have me

Answer 10

because they are absollute morons with their own imperfections in mind , i guess they need you to be perfect so no one notices their faults