2006-11-20 16:16:28 · 9 answers · asked by poke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You don't. They don't take the time to listen because of their own needs are distracting them. Try to tell this person how you feel before you hurt any longer. Good luck. This will pass.
2006-11-20 16:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know when they are the people that always stick by you when you have aproblem,if they have time to just come and sit with you when you r having a bad day.
sometimes its not that that person doesnt understand you,its just that they have never told you or shown you that the do.
it can also be that you have never given them a chance to get close or tlk to you.
do they also help you when you are in trouble or just listen to u when you need to talk to someone.to understand someone doent necessarilly mean to agree with everything they do, it could be their own way of understanding y u do what u do
2006-11-20 19:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by valery p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they say it and behave in a way that shows their love then they love you. If you don't 'feel' it, then it's possible that you don't understand them. Many people will love you in your life but if you don't feel it thats not their fault, they still loved you.
2006-11-20 16:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by hockey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to feel love from yourself before you can feel love from someone else... just from the question it sounds like you don't very much understand yourself or how you feel... get to know yourself and know that you don't need anyone.. you need to love and care for yourself before you can let someone else do it
2006-11-20 16:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by ptmamas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal... how are they to know you if you don't let them? Don't spend your energy building walls, pretty soon you will be the only one there. Here's another key to life- you cannot change people... so let it go... go into emotional rehab and chaulk it up to experience.
2006-11-27 08:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't if its you husband or just a man that how they all are they don't listen and never hear a word you say and there just there to pay the bills and give me some money.we woman need more but we can do worse
2006-11-20 17:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will annoy me if he pretend or keep saying that he knows me and understand what im feeling.although actually he dont.but it will be ok to me if he try to understand and make me calm although he dont really understand me.
2006-11-20 16:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by i^am^me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try striking up a conversation first....*raises eyebrows*
2006-11-20 16:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't
2006-11-20 16:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋