why does food have to come up? Who now wants to be a house wife? And if i do cook should he do the dishes?
2006-11-20 15:58:24 · 21 answers · asked by Erica P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's "through" his stomach. You "threw" the ball.
2006-11-20 16:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Food is food. Do not blame the food. Food is precious. Who cooks it is a matter of choice. I assume you are wanting to be a wife (life partner). I've done dishes for 3 years by hand. I recommend a dishwasher machine over hand washing anytime. Hand washings only upside is the mechanism never breaks unless you break your hands. Now I like good food so if I was with someone who cooked badly I wouldn't want them to cook. I know how to cook so it's not a problem. I recommend burning things. I've seen the end result of a girl who actually warped several cooking pans. She let them sit on the burners without oil or anything in them. Oil dissipates the heat. This same girl did not know how to make pancakes the world's simplest meal. This of course was someone else's girlfriend and not my problem. If you are both working and making enough money there are meal services that will prepare meals for you and deliver them to you once a week. So there are alternatives. I'm not sure your situation. Ultimately I believe good food is a big factor in life. Who cooks or does the dishes isn't. I believe there is doing your fair share though.
2006-11-21 00:19:47 · answer #2 · answered by midastouch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...all men love a good home cooked meal...probably because not too many women know how to cook anymore! You bet, there are three basic needs men have, and it's to eat, sleep and have sex...somebody tell me I'm wrong!?!?!?!?!
And there's nothing wrong with being a housewife...who the hell calls themselves that anymore! Domestic Goddess, is more like it...nothing better than having time on your hands to do anything you will...even work and pay for that maid to clean your house and so what if you have to cook, yes, he certainly can do the dishes with you...good time to chat and get caught up with your day's events.
2006-11-21 00:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a good cook & he loves home cooked food, you can win his heart. Then you are the boss- so I donot have to tell you whos would do the dishes and throw trash.
A hommaker is also like afulltime job. It is purely the individual decision.
2006-11-21 00:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah... I think that saying is from Medeival times when food was scarce the dating field was narrow.
The way to my heart is be nice, kind, fun, playful, adventurous, and sexy. I'm also more attracted to professional go-getters than traditional house-wives, as long as her profession doesn't ruin her life outside of work.
And yes, if she were to cook, I would do the dishes. For a relationship to work, both people need to contribute.
2006-11-21 00:14:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why make it so complicated?
Yes, the way to a man's heart is through hi stomach. This shows your feminine side, and remember a man is likely to become involved with a girl who reminds him of his Mother.
If he does the dishes, then you know you have a real catch!
2006-11-21 00:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by Frogface53 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men want a women who can cook. so they don't have to. SOme men will do the dishes and take out the trash if the women cooks. but now day some many thing have changed.
2006-11-21 00:03:56 · answer #7 · answered by lucille692003 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is one way to catch him, but food is the way to keep him. How else is he going to keep his strength and stamina up?
Now that my bf and I are closer, he likes for me to cook for him sometimes. I don't want to be a housewife, but I get hungry and don't want to go out all the time. Yes, it's only fair if he does the dishes after you cook--my bf does.
2006-11-21 03:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh it depends on the relatinship and how much ou guys communicate with one another. I knwo i wouldnt like to be the one doing all the cooking all of the time but it proportionatley depends on the communication because you can assign days to cook (ex: mon. You...tues. him...and so on). There are some people in the world well, let me rephrase myself, there are women in the world who wants that stay home wife life but to each its own lol.
2006-11-21 00:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Te'Naj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys love food. you can always trade cooking days and some people like being a housewife. yes, he helped make the mess so he should help clean
2006-11-21 00:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by KitKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is through what ever he wants but don't give him every thing. for example if he wants sex he should work for it by spending quality time w/u or let him do the cleaning, u don't want to be his 24/7 maid or whore on demand.
2006-11-21 00:05:49 · answer #11 · answered by lady t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋