Is Cybering Cheating?

Question

Ok This question must have been asked 100's of times...

I like to flirt & cyber whenever i have time, Internet & alone without my GF.
Online i dont do more than flirt & naughty talk...

Do you think its wrong...

If u think it is how do i stop it.. cause i just cant stop it... its fun & its a best way to kill time...& nobody can know what i am doing unless they read what i am typing...
Has anybody been in similar situations

Answer 1

Cheating occurs as soon as you think seriously about someone when there is already someone else in your life. It's hard to define, but there's a reason porn isn't really considered cheating--because while there are those who like to watch porn, they wouldn't necessarily dump their partners to date those porn stars--it's just something they do to pass the time... and receive instant gratification.

So if your flirting isn't serious, and you don't think much of it when you do it, aside from using it as an instant ego boost or whatnot, then there's no reason to stop it. Just make sure you know your boundaries, you keep it toned-down to a minimal level, and keep it one of those minor 'naughty' habits your girlfriend shouldn't know about. Note the words "toned-down," "minimal level," and "minor habits."

On the other hand, if you're becoming more attached to the person with whom you partake in this behavior, then... well, you know the answer to that.

Cybering is another territory altogether. But exploring another person who is not your girlfriend, be it verbally or physically, isn't something that you should be doing with a good conscience. I would suggest that this is one of the ways that you'd be crossing the boundaries and I think you risk losing your girlfriend. Although a lot of people differ in their opinions and perception of online behavior, I think a lot of girls wouldn't want their boyfriends to be having any kind of sex with anyone else. Cyber sex is with a direct person. I think you should just stick to porn.

Answer 2

Cheating is about betraying trust, and about not honoring the commitment that two people have made to each other. The commitment made between boyfriend and girlfriend, between husband and wife, between two partners, is a commitment to honor each other - to be fully trustworthy - to be honest and true. This is a commitment about how you treat each other, and how you respect each other.

A boyfriend and girlfriend should always have each other as the most important person in their world. That is, when they make normal decisions about life, upholding that relationship should always be the first concern. There are always temptations in the world. That is normal. There is always someone smarter or sexier or richer or whatever out there. But when you have made a commitment to a person, your duty is to avoid those temptations. A guy Cybering without his girlfriend knowing and thinking "my girlfriend will never find out" is an act of betrayal. The guy is now spending his time, his energies and efforts on another not his girlfriend. Sometimes the cheating person justifies their behavior to themselves. if your saying to your self "I want to protect my girlfriend from this knowledge for It would just hurt her" your cheating.

stoping this act is one of the simplest things to do, tell her what your doing, her knowing what you doing isn't betraying her trust any longer. try it...

Answer 3

If it weren't you may do it with any and all your acquaintances bf's or pals and family husbands then could no longer you? yet you does no longer because of the fact the substantial element is the allure for the guy you're cybering with. it is sort of like while some human beings think of that oral isn't intercourse. besides the undeniable fact that, you does no longer circulate down your block in the process the vacations and giving out BJ's to the friends on account that's a sexual act.

Answer 4

Ok, im going to say, if your girlfriend ever finds out, youll be dumped :), but id stop, its not a good thing, look into other intrests. like Computer gaming- Website creation, Or other great things to do ont he computers besides that, BEing a naughty porno seeker, and a lady playa isnt the best way to kill time, it leads to problems when your cought. These other hobbys ont eh computer, may not be as entertaining, but at least its right, and at least you learn more.

Answer 5

Yeah a little, I cybered with this kid once and it was the dirtiest wildest time ever and it made me feel so good, way better than any of my real sex relationships I ended up having later. Back then I was a virgin, so it made me feel kind of like less of a virgin. It's a little wrong, it's emotional cheating which Oprah thinks is worse than the regular kind. I'd suggest porn.

Answer 6

my ex was doing this behind my back until i found out about it and i totally hated what he was doing....i do consider it cheating....why do you feel the need to talk with strangers and naughty talk...are you afraid to talk naughty with your gf?

and if you gf does get wind of it....beware b/c we are evil and will find a way to make you pay...i did...and he never knew it was me!!!! plus she will never trust you again when it comes to the computer.....

stop before you hurt your gf if you truly care about her....
kill time by being with her, read a book, watch tv, go out with friends...find a new hobby and quick!!!

Answer 7

cybering is disgusting and cheesey and stupid if you have a gf and you want to have sex just do it with her why do it over a computer ? its not really cheating but if your gf found out i know she would be pissed cause i found my bf doing it and i felt like why cant he just come to me when he is in the mood why resort to cybering

Answer 8

It's not cheating. It's like a dream. Nobody knows who or where and there's no physical contact.

Answer 9

ya its stupid and wrong its almost like looking at porn and soing that its wrong i caught my boyfriend on a porn site and it made me feel like **** and i cried everytime i knew he was on it but thats something i dont have to worry about anymore but ya y cant u just tell ur g/f when ur in the mood its better to do that with ur g/f then rather with a stranger

Answer 10

YES, YOUR STILL PLAYING AT THE CHEATING GAME.