I MET THIS GUY ON THE INTERNET AND WE MET IN PERSON AND ITHOUGHT HE WAS VERY SWEET AND NICE I THOUGHT WE COULD BEGAIN A RELATIONSHIP BUT I MIGHT BE WRONG HE'S BEEN WORKING AND I HAVEN'T SPOKEN TO HIM IN A FEW DAYS I WAS WONDERING SHOULD I GIVE HIM A LIL MORE TIME OR SHOULD I JUST MOVE ON I'M A SISTA JUST TRY TO FIND A GOOD MAN.
2006-11-20 15:42:56 · 14 answers · asked by TIONNA J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ti: You are playing with fire, shopping on the net for a guy and showing up in person. There are jail birds and psychos out there, who would con you so fast, that you would pass out and when you woke up, your clothes would be out of style! A good man CAN be found on the net but these usually are a rare find. the net has lots of people with tons of baggage he or she is carrying. You need to spend time together, in person, to get to know him or her. Seldom do you get the person from the net you think you are getting. Time to move on and try a different fishing hole other than the net !!!
2006-11-20 15:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he seem interested in you? Call or email him just to say hi and see what his response is. If nothing...move on, if he answers and asks you questions then he may be interested, but if you get a hi and no questions and he says something like see ya around, then it's time to move on. Internet dating is difficult. I have run into my share of playas and it's no fun. Keep dating cause the right one for you will let you know and not keep you waiting. Good Luck.
2006-11-20 15:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie H 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Move on he should have called you . The proper thing would have been to give you a follow up call after meeting you . He hasn't busy nor not if a guy wants to call you he'll call. So why wait around carry on about your business.
And if he does call . I would say its too late you got your answer already when he didn't call you.
2006-11-20 15:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on! You met him on the Internet anyway.
2006-11-20 15:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK NEXT TIME DON'T RIGHT IN CAPS BUT... YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE HE'S A GOOD GUY FIRST, DON'T LET GO OF HIM JUST BECAUSE HE HASN'T SPOKEN TO YOU IN A FEW DAYS... SISTA
2006-11-20 15:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by rusty s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would give him a few more days, but if he doesn't call within the next week or so, I'd let it go---and I wouldn't call him. If a man really wants to call you----he will. And if he doesn't want to talk to you----he won't.
2006-11-20 15:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In the mean time get to know and love yourself better. good men like that
2006-11-20 15:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
give it time, all good things come to those who wait, he may or may not be interested in u but i wouldn't give up just yet, but u could still date around, don't wait completely on him but don't give up yet either
2006-11-20 15:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ gina ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could prolly call once and say hi and stuff, then wait to see if he calls back, if he does then thats good if not i would just move on,
2006-11-20 15:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by jillrm_03 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Relax,,its only been a few days.If it doesnt work out,,its his loss.lol
2006-11-20 15:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋