i have a bf and i love him.. but theres this guy that i met in 9th grade and i like him a lot.. and idk wat to do..
2006-11-20 14:29:38 · 16 answers · asked by bluehuntrunner09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to your bf now and tell him about that dilemma you have.
2006-11-20 14:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the guy you met in ninth grade. I'm not sure how old you are but, it sounds like you have known this guy longer than your current boyfriend. You have either kept in touch for awhile or rekindled an old friendship. He's been there for you and the fact that you have posted this for the world to see means you know the right answer just want reassurance. Give it a go, you have nothing to lose.
2006-11-20 22:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by jaxpilot11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your guy....is okay to look at the menu but not to order....in other words you are just going thru that phase that you Think you like someone else..but smack out of it now you probably see all kinds of defects on your bf (which you did not see before) and start thinking of some possible thing with the new guy.....beware..you don't lose what you got for something you don't know for sure. Best of Luck!
2006-11-20 22:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by karaya6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So in other words youre really not IN love with your actual b/f. Youre in 9th grade.......who says you have to be tied to one guy? If you love the guy youre with, leave him and be fair to him b/c its obvioius your heart really isnt 100% into things. Youre too young to be tied to one person for the rest of your life. Go out and live and meet others.
2006-11-20 22:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how old you are. If you are young, like, tenth grade, then you probably don't love your boyfriend.
What i found, was when i was in high school, i confused 'love' with 'infatuation'.
So my advice to you is, talk to this freshman, see what he's like. But don't break your boyfriend's heart unless you're sure that this other fellow will make you happier.
2006-11-20 22:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by ChrisB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me and i cheated on my boyfriend at the time. i felt bad about it for a REALLY long time. if you really like this other guy, chances are it means you might not really love your boyfriend, even though you might feel like you still do.
whatever you do, if you decide you want to try it with the new guy, do yourself a favor and break up with your boyfriend. it'll make you feel a lot better in the long run.
2006-11-20 22:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the past remain the past and stick with the sure thing. And think about how you would feel if your boyfriend ran into a person from the past and left you for them.
2006-11-20 22:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would stay with the boy that was older sweeter and cuter! but i don't know what kind of guy you go 4....i go 4 the hot jocks and skaters! but if i were you i would stay with my boyfriend i was with at the time! :) why would you want to dump your boyfriend 4 another guy.....that means you don't have true feelings 4 him listen to your heart and go with what it says. also it depends on the age group....if you go 4 younger guys thats cool i guess go 4 the younger 1 if your like me and date all the older dudes stick with them they have more experiences!
2006-11-20 22:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by britt1234:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your boyfriend.
Think about it, if you love someone and you like someone elese
who are you gonna go with?
mabey since youre thinking about ditching your boyfriend you dont really love him.
2006-11-20 22:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with sunny side up, but the best thing you can do is go with your heart
2006-11-20 22:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋