There's this man at work that i just love to see, and I'm falling for him, I know it's wrong to date him or anything, but all I want is a one night stand with him, How do I approach to him or tell him that I like him?
2006-11-20 14:25:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no no no bad run honey... I've been there I've done that don't do it! not even one night... that's what your telling yourself now then it will be just this one last time...and this last time will keep happening... and then he'll talk about leaving his wife... and they never do. you wanna good scar and reality check visit these poor bitter miserable women. trust me you don't want to be one of them... http://gloryb.com/forum/cgi/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=forum;f=8;hardset=;start_point=;DaysPrune= being flat out honest I'm not telling you not to because he's married and that's wrong... cause honestly i could care less about his commitment.... its his not yours... but what i do care about is these things really mess up women. its not worth the pain its a miserable hassle. you'll end up with your heart broken... and you might end up with a psycho wife chasing you as well. find a guy that's not a creep... one that would never cheat on a girl... you deserve that. this is probably not what you want to hear.. as you are asking advice on how to approach him... but being some one thats been there i just can't tell some one to do that... maybe you could have your office swtiched or change something at work so you don't see him so much.
2006-11-20 14:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Im sure that you probably find a way to attract his attention but if you are asking i can tell you dear that you are asking for more trouble than just a one night stand.....no matter what you hear or read if you are determined and you really falling for him chances are that he would of course give you that night that you are wishing for, but if you are willing to give without getting nothing in return then go for it if that satisfy your curiosity, just be careful because if he is married you are very at risk for lots of things...good luck!
2006-11-20 22:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by karaya6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't you are lusting after that married man cause you never had sex with a married man before were are your moral cause afterward when you get married it will happen to you and then you will remember what you did and it won't be no fun cause you can destroy some one marriage and destroy an innocent child life so move on before you regret what you did good luck
2006-11-20 22:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, are you afraid of commitment? A one night stand doesn't help you. He may just ignore you the next day at work.
2006-11-20 22:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by danette e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is ...do you really want to be "the other woman"? Do you really want to be the woman that causes unhappiness in a family? And if you can honestly say that you do want to be "that woman" than I can't help but feel a bit sorry for you. Put yourself in his wifes shoes. What if it were you? How upset would you be if another woman did that to you?
2006-11-20 22:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by sammytoes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it.you just want a night stand.ask yourself this.does it really worth messing with someone else's husband just for one night stand?how would you feel if you were the wife and then you find out about it?not good i guess.so dont do it.there are plenty of single guys out there,just go and find one who's not taken.and stop messing with other's peoples life.
2006-11-20 22:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Huge mistake; for you, for him... everybody. He has a commitment, don't lower yourself to asking for a one night stand, that's cheap and makes you look like a whore. Just being honest with you. There's so many men out there, find one who's available.
2006-11-20 22:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by suz_e_q_zee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go for it if its only a one night stand. maybe the both of you can see each other after work. GET A ROOM
2006-11-20 22:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you think that it is wrong to date him, but not sleep with him? That is what concerns me the most about your question. I would suggest seeing a therapist. Honestly.
2006-11-20 22:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with everyone else- he is off the market- that's one thing that hurts people so bad- and if you did it and it came back on you - you would deserve every thing that came to you. Don't set yourself up for that. There are plenty of single guys - AND what if he turns you down .............. man- good luck to you.
2006-11-20 22:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jen E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋