There's a guy I can't stop thinking about
everytime I talk to him on MSN...all of a sudden I can't think of what to type...I just freeze...and when I'm around him in person...I look like an idiot....b/c I'm so kiddy lol and then again I'm at a loss of words
He's asian...and my sister telling me how she can't wait to see my walk in the house with a nice black boyfriend...both her and my dad are like that...everyone else in my family is fine with any race
and then there people who say things...like "it's so rare to see a black girl and an asian guy" or "asian guys don't like black girls"
it's hard to ignore them...he told me that he liked me before...but I don't know anymore- I think he knows I like him even though I never told him
How do I just relax....just calm down & not make a fool of myself?
2006-11-20 14:15:06 · 3 answers · asked by 1 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it sounds forward but i think you should tell him that you like him. or maybe hint to him a little, like tell him hes cute online. And you shouldn't worry about your family not liking him, its your life not theirs. And it seems like you would be happy with him. Just go for it!
and if your like me have a friend tell him that you want to go out with him.
2006-11-20 14:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by Frosty 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't live for people, we all do what is best for us, every situation differs, their are some black and Asian couples out there, and you may even be one of them, just be yourself when you are around him, maybe he is just as Shy, who knows this may have a Happy ending!!
2006-11-20 22:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be with him, then go for it. It might not be easy, but it might be worth it.
2006-11-20 22:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋