my one true love....is funny because she has a boyrfriend...now they are 1 year together so far...n she was tryin to let go of me but she couldnt ...we still talk...but everything is changing so much....we talk, for 20 mins tops...we used to talk till 3 am sometimes....n also....its just not the same....i know i love her n she still love me too....but things are so different...is she slowly letting go???? what do i do?
2006-11-20 14:13:49 · 8 answers · asked by lovin_mi_fresa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she really loved you, you would be her boyfriend, not the other guy. No excuses. Really. Stop making excuses. She already let go of you the minute you were no longer her boyfriend. She let go of you even more when she found a new one. And now the phone calls are ending quicker.
The only reason girls keep guys dangling around is because we like male attention from multiple sources: the more the better. WE LOVE IT! And sometimes we don't care who we hurt, as long as men are making us feel special. You make her feel special, so she keeps you around. But she does not love you in that way and you are not her "one true love." If you were, you'd be together. Its very simple. Cut her off, no contact. Move on.
2006-11-20 14:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by SummerPixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well U have 2 remember she has a boyfriend & things could never be the same because of that He's her main guy now So her attention pretty much has 2 be on him If u 2 feel the same about 1 another why does she have a boyfriend? & 4 a year? I think U feel more 4 her then she does 4 U I think she's stringing u along a bit but I can't judge because I don't know your situation
U should date some other girls so u know their r plenty out their not just her Good Luck!
2006-11-20 14:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by lost in translation. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all relationships change and take different paths..the fact she has been with this guy for a year now lets you know that she has deep feelings for him..but the two of you share a past and perhaps it is the friendship that she does not wish to lose ..maybe it is just turning to a different kind of love for her
2006-11-20 14:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant tell you what to do.
but i of all people believe in hope.
i say, if shes worth holding on to, then hold on
never let go so easliy to something that means the world to you
cause you never know if that was your chance,
if she was the one,
and if you were to hold on,
would she realize it
and come back.
love isnt something that just dies,
so dont give up hope.
if you love her, then hold on.
its always worth the pain.
2006-11-20 14:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by Amber V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her,dont let her go.try to get her back.but only do it if you are sure she loves you the same way still.dont loose the person you love for no reason.if she doesnt love you back the same way you love her,then let her go,let her be happy with someone else.i know it's hard,but when we really love someone,we want them to be happy no matter if it's with us or not.
2006-11-20 14:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships change..If she has a boyfriend maybe she feels bad, Sometimes you have to let people go for them to realize what they had,
2006-11-20 14:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with her, be a great friend to her because you'll never know. She might open her eyes and see what a great guy you are for being there for her and being happy for her.
2006-11-20 14:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go.
2006-11-20 14:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋