somtimes i seem farther away from the one i most love and trust, somtime she shows me no love but say she loves me and even though shes tell the truth i try to belive it but dont have any idea if i am on the right path, when i kiss her see denays it somtimes then when she dose kiss me its like she kissing someone else. thats how i feel even though I have been going out with her for a year and 3 months. can u help????
2006-11-20 13:29:26 · 8 answers · asked by bob_okerman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do something to put the spark back in your relationship
2006-11-20 13:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lilolme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OK, you are too sensitive. What is important between two lover is trust. Since you don't trust her , of cause you cant feel her love towards you. If she shows no love to you then why she kiss you? If I'm that girl i rather kiss the other boy , right? Just give her some trust.
2006-11-20 21:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by evolutionf330q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your married then its less likely she is cheating on you...if you live together then you can try to catch her if she is cheating on you. You can waste money to catch her is she really is. You can buy something with a built in survelance camera and place it either in your bedroom or maybe the living room. You can get a clock with a camera in it. Then you plan to go visit a relative or go out of town for a few days. She will have her "other" man if she is cheating on you. You should be able to catch her like that. If you dont live together then you dont really have a good way to find out. You could just do random checks on her house.
2006-11-20 21:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by imsmartkid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....let's see...she shy to admit something like kissing you, to society...she wants to be "innocent". When you two argue, she says all of these things because she knows that it hurts you most. If she didn't love you and thought about being with someone else, you have to ask, why is she still with you? Wish you luck...
A.L.
2006-11-20 21:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Angelus L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move on sometimes when one gets comfortable in a relationship thats how it is a year is not long and seems like there is no spark there move on and be free to find your one true love the spark never dies or lies
2006-11-20 21:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your instinct, if it feels like there is something wrong then more than likely there is.....talk to her, tell her how you feel and if she gets mad then she knows what you are feeling is the truth, if she wants to work on things then you know she wants things to be great between you
2006-11-20 21:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by C S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has it always been like that? sometimes people just get into a rut...they don't miss anyone til they are gone...confront her with your feelings..find out the problem...if she doesn't want you find someone that does.........
2006-11-20 21:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are very insecure about yourself and this relationship, and that in it's self can ruin this relationship for you. Don't invent problems that may not be there
2006-11-20 21:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋