i am like in love with alot of highschoolers but i am just in 7th grade oes that mean ill never have a chance? im only like 3yrs younger! tell me wat u think plz and your own expeiriances!
2006-11-20 13:28:25 · 26 answers · asked by headache 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dear middle grader
its better to stick with the peers o f your own age. 3years may not seem a lot at the moment, but their is a great difference. for example, less pressure to grow up so fast. it may seem cool to hang with the older ones, but it forces you to grow up way faster than you should. trust me you will enjoy your high school years much better with those of your own age.
why risk the thought of sex, alcohol, and drugs when your mind clearly isn't ready to help you with those issue.. you will have plenty of time to grow up, because if you had to ask the question you most likely already know the answer..
Enjoy being a kid.
and yes i did date guys in high school when i was in 7Th and by the age of 14 pregnant with that high schooler long gone no where to be found
2006-11-20 13:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by di 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alright to be dating a highschooler when you're like only 3 yrs younger than them. I mean that when it comes to 18 yr olds, well.. I don't know about that because people around here are like.. Well.. the older one will end up in jail for dating you or having sex with you. The US seems to be so strict now in days for about dating things. They're not worried about what's important like homeless people or elder having health insurance. They worry about sex offenders, dating ages, etc, now. Back then, you could get away with dating someone like 10 yrs older than you but if I was you, I should just go on and date a high schooler. It won't really matter because there was a highschooler that I had a crush on and he was like 4 yrs older than me but we never dated bc he had a girlfriend, that was the same age as him, which sucked but anyways, hope you enjoyed my advice.
2006-11-20 13:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by AMPLette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in 7th grade I didn't know what "Going out" was. Relax sweetie, you've got plenty of time. Like you said, you're only in 7th grade. Don't rush it. H.S. guys only want one thing at their age and I'm pretty sure you're not ready to give that up. Let's just say they don't think with the head that's on their shoulders. They think with the other one - if you know what I'm saying. Besides, your folks would never allow it anyway, and you don't want to be sneaking around behind their backs. It only makes it worse.
I know that's probably not what you wanted to hear, but it's the honest truth. This coming from a guy with two teenage daughters.
2006-11-20 13:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love with them. Try dating guys around your age. The girls in my middle school who dated highschoolers usually ended up pregnant and dropping out by the time sophomore year hit.
2006-11-20 13:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by Casey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in highschool I dated a guy that was 3 years older than me, now I realize that he must have been one lame guy to date a chic 3 yrs younger than him. Is that what you want? A lame older guy that cant get girls his age? If so, go for the gold!!!
2006-11-20 13:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I never have, and three years is a long ways apart for your age. Age and class shouldn't matter when it comes to deciding who to "go out with". You don't need to date higher than your class level to "be cool" if that's what you're wanting. You can always stick to your own level and that is almost always the best way to go. All that matters is that you like someone and they like you back.
2006-11-20 13:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not im middle school but, im now in highschool and im dating someone who is in collage, 10 years older then me, if that helps any
2006-11-20 13:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 06:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never had that exprience
it depends wait till you get older its ok to have crushes on some highschools i was like that too when i was you age. but as you get older things will change and know better so try not to get your heart borken.
Good Luck
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2006-11-20 13:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by Thrills 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never went out with a high schooler when i was your age, but it's entirely possible to do. Get to know them better, maybe it'll happen. Good luck!
2006-11-20 13:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by Lizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋