Why do men dump women after intimacy?

Answer 1

I think if they do that it is a sign that there goal was the get the person laid up and leave. A way to test if a guy is gonna do that is when he ask about sex tell him you choose to wait if he is ok with that and stays with you then 9 out of 10 times he wont leave after sex if he complains then thats a sign that he may be only looking for sex

Answer 2

You mean after SEX?

Ok, pay attention, I'm going to tell you something most women find extraordinary.

Men, have three times the amount of sex hormones as women, and unlike your monthly cycles, our hormones are at an almost CONSTANT level.

Now, most MEN don't realize there is a psychological component, which is one reason masterbation doesn't completely satisfy - the other is the fact that it doesn't get a man as fired up.

So, imagine the horniest you've ever been, imagine it three times stronger, and imagine you have to endure it constantly.

It is veeeeery difficult for a man to contain himself. His mind becomes clouded, and to avoid guilt we convince ourselves that we want something that may be beneath our standards, or we may not have compatibility. In any case, when the hormones clear, and we have our reason back, and realize what we've done. We often run.

Don't judge us to harshly, it is difficult to resist. Imagine if the roles were reversed.

That is the ugly truth.

Answer 3

Girlfriend, this is why you should not share your body with a guy until you truly know him. Lots of guys are just after sex, but there are also lots of good guys. I think girls tend to give themselves away to soon to guys. If you are not in it "just for the sex", don't have sex with a guy until you are sure where your relationship is headed. I am a gay guy, so I know what it's like to both BE a guy and to BE WITH a guy, and I'll tell you that guys are extremely more sexually motivated than girls. But when you find the right guy he won't want to get into your pants right away. Don't let your heart get attached too soon. While girls have the special ability to entice a guy, guys have the ability to trick girls into thinking there is more than just sex - and then you get hurt. Pay attention to how he treats you outside of the bedroom before you go into the bedroom. Even if you have to wait a long time to find Mr. Right, it will be worth the wait.

Answer 4

do u wanna knw the real reason? well ill tell ya first of all ur right about just gettin into dere knickers but if das da case why wouldnt dey jus keep doin it? its because its arkward when u see em in the morning or the next day and we aint got the patience to be dealin wiv it luv.

Answer 5

First answer was the best. We want what we cannot have. It is all about the game not the pieces on the board. When we are ready to settle down we will. Only way to relate is to play the game

Answer 6

Not all men do this, but a lot do. All they want is to get into the woman's pants, and they'll say or do anything to get there. Once the deed is done, they're off to look for another conquest.

Answer 7

Sorry, I'm not that kind of person, but they probably just want don't anything serious with you and are looking for a quick relationship, or even a one night stand if that's happened to you.

Answer 8

Because that is all they wanted.That is not intimacy,it is a quick lay.

Answer 9

all about what they can get off you, maybe wait until your really in a committed relationship before u put out. let them see your just not just a pushover and easy.

Answer 10

We "hit it and quit it" thats all we want, Not a relationship. Or u werent that good in bed.