okay, i've asked this before and didn't really get answers. There is this girl and i asked her out and she said she didn't want to ruin our perfect friendship. And i said it wouldn't be strange at all if we broke up, we could still hang out. And she said she dosen't know yet. Everytime i ask her she said she dosen't know... WHAT CAN I DO???
2006-11-20 13:14:43 · 8 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see, that's what everyone said. But i asked her and she said it wasn't she didn't want to it's because she needs to think about it
2006-11-20 13:18:26 · update #1
hmm. well with everyone telling me to wait and move on... She just called and told me she wants to and where going to go out...
2006-11-20 14:40:02 · update #2
If you like her enought you will be patient. Just keep being her friend and that should be enough until she is ready to actually have a realationship. This prolly isn't what u wanna hear, but there is really nothing you can do. You can't force her to have a relationship with you.
2006-11-20 13:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by Tanya R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait patiently. By asking her over and over again, that's pressuring her and giving her doubts maybe even making her push you further away. Instead let time take its course. Maybe your friendship means more to her than a relationship.
show her what an awesome friend you are and later she'll see the light and realize that not only are you a great friend but you could be an even greater boyfriend ;)
2006-11-20 21:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Analisa 4rm Edinburg RGV - TX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop asking her!
If you keep pushing the subject, she'll never answer you and probably get frustrated enough that she'll start distancing herself from you and you won't have a friendship anymore.
If she's unsure of whether she wants to be more than friends, then give her some time to think about it. Just let her know that you'll always be her friend and always be there for her, whether she wants to get into a relationship or keep it like it is.
She'll respect that.
2006-11-20 21:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until she feels more confident and asks you out.
2006-11-20 21:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She only wants to be your friend!
2006-11-20 21:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop asking her and find some one else!
2006-11-20 21:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that she doesn't want to get with you. or maybe she is playing hard to get.
2006-11-20 21:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her space and time that's the only thing you can do...
2006-11-20 21:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by hotsauce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋