Ok well it starts out with a 3 year relationship then ends.... I always told him that I wanted to be friends even if things didnt work out in the long run. And then the time came where it did come to an end we didnt talk for a month then I called him and told him that he wasnt just my boyfrriend he was my best friend and then we started talking again.... And we were friends with benifits then he told me no more than he slowly faded away again and I met someone else and I called him today and he started asking me about the guy I was seeing and I told him,,,,But to make a long story short he told me we couldnt hang out as friends cause he knows I still am in love with him and I told him Im over him and it was a big lie but I miss seeing him and I wanna be back with him and he won't come back what should I do?
2006-11-20 13:14:26 · 5 answers · asked by labellatinker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey if u say ur over someone u should truly be over them. if u didnt wanna truly end it u should have just confronted him about ur probs and maybe u could have worked it out.
2006-11-20 13:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad but true that once you have been bf & gf the option of ever being just friends flies out the window. If you love him, if you ever loved him than do a favor for both of you and be mature enough to get back with him or cut him loose. Your just hurting each-other at this point and thats not friendly at all.
J. Swaney
2006-11-20 21:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by j.swaney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be friends with him until half the time you were dating is past. If you dated three years, then give it 18 months. It sounds like a long time, but there is too much emotional baggage if you try to be friends any sooner.
2006-11-20 21:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by ck27one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE may still be in love with YOU.
I was in a similar situation. My ex wanted to stay friends with me no matter what. And then the day came when she asked me not to call anymore - a day I knew would come.
Let him go. It's rare to stay friends because there are almost always unresolved feelings. So let him go.
2006-11-20 21:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go and respect him if you two are going to be friends in the long run then you'll have to give him space and respect him... and maybe he was just saying that you was in love with him becuz he loves you still... give him space
2006-11-20 21:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by julie43824 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋