Does everything really happen for a reason? Tell me the reason why you think so.?

Answer 1

i suppose to be marrying my bestfriend way back in 2000. he back out at the last minute while everything is ready cause of small mis-understanding. the minister, the clerk, the witness, the reception, you name it. all needed is the bride and groom. i was ready to leave my ex-husband to be with him. but after all of that, we did remain the best of friends and much closer than before.

that same year, his mom suffer some major health problem (kidney failure that required dialysis), he is the oldest and the only one she needed support and care from.

if he married me, he probably would not be able to be there right away for his mom, i know i will feel so terribly guilty cause she is just like my second mom in my life. i was devastated hearing that she gotten sick and my best friend really dedicate his self for his mom. i did asked and offer if they need me, i'll be there to assist no matter what, but my best friend insist i stayed in the states.

that time, that makes me decide strongly, my ex-husband that i'm living with is doing the same thing when we first gotten married, womanizing. i decided to finally cut my relationship with him and using the marriage to my best friend as a scape goat. not that i don't love my best friend, i do, with all my heart, would that be wonderful that you have him both as a best friend and as a husband? i did blame him for not going through the motion, he said it's not the right time cause i'm involve with my ex and that is something he can't handle. he only want me without any attachment with the former husband. the truth is, i have 2 ex-husband and they are unable to get rid of me from their mind, even i'm the one who leave them both.

i guess, im too much, i just wanted to make sure that my last marriage will be it. he did remain single up to this day, i'm not sure when we are going to marry each other, we did promise each other that if we reach certain age and if we remain single, we will marry each other. we're too close since we are a teens.

but then again, my ex realize he cannot live without me in his life, he changed for the better. he is totally different guy from the one who almost lost me. i guess its blessing in disguise that the wedding did not take part.

sometimes, back in my mind, i wonder what if? did we make it?

im back with my ex, my first. but my best friend remain tight in my life. im a respectful lady, it's just i love both, my husband and my best friend. im different from anyone, im rare, anyone who knows me, knew how i am. it's hard to analyze myself, that is why i distance myself all the time, i don't want other people to get to know me, cause they fall for me and im just going to hurt them. its not that im that bad, cause i can't make up my mind. i pity people and im too gullible for sob story and i don't want to hurt no one.

Answer 2

So that we can learn from each and every experience that we are either lucky or sometimes unlucky to have had while on this earth. At times we all question why something terrible has happened but there is a reason for it as sure as there is a reason that the suns rises in the east each morning.

Answer 3

Yes, things happen for reasons.Some we can never figure out why, but others you need to make better. When something unexpected, or negative happens, it challenges you to find a positive. To turn the situation into a lesson, or you might even change a career path. Your faith is restored, you are reminded whats important and not to overlook or take for granted loved ones or things in your every day life.

Answer 4

Everything does happen for a reason...the catch is most of the time it's a bad reason.

Answer 5

No. If everything happens for a reason then someone explain reality t.v. or celebrity marriages.

Answer 6

yes it does happen for a reason the reasons are it makes us who we are later on in life it gives us experience o deal with issues again and again

Answer 7

Only time could tell...