I am thirty one and wondering if I am too picky. In my lifetime (31 years) I have only found two or three girls who I thought as someone I would really want to be with. I am a great find, a great guy, smart, attractive, sensitive, confident, funny, with my own responsible wild side. I may have been too picky. Or I may have been too busy, shy, or just had some bad luck.
2006-11-20 13:07:11 · 9 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you don't know what you're looking for, or just haven't found the right one. you need to be open minded when it comes to find a mate to be with. List some of the qualities you want in a woman, and go out and find the girl with that quality, and see if you hit it off with her.
2006-11-20 13:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u have to look at it this way.........in 31 years u have only chosen 3 girls who u thought met your standards, and where are they now??? You need to open your horizens a little. It doesn't mean u have to have relationships with everyone u meet, but at least keep the opporunity open to people to at least get to know different types of women. It's ok to be "selective", but just know u can't judge a book by it's cover. The right woman will come around I am sure. Good luck :-)
2006-11-20 21:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe it is that you are too picky. I mean, I know my brother is and he barely admits a girl is EVEN PRETTY if they're not like on america's next top model or something lol. but yeah, it might be that. girls dont like picky guys. they usually say "ok, screw them". =) i heard a girl say that today lol over a picky guy.
so yeah...you're still really really young...31! omg that is like such a perfect time to start a relationship.
2006-11-20 21:11:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing u can't think yuor took good for a women, your not gonna find 1 that way. If u only date ones that u like from first glance then your not gonna get many dates. if u think ones lookes cut but she cound be better, heck ask her out.
2006-11-20 21:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think girls are picky they just want to know Wathis wrong with you and the means that they care about you OK,from a girl
2006-11-20 21:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that some guys have this image in their heads of "what a female should look like" some guys set the standard to high for them to even find a gurl like that...i say set ur standards of what a gurl should look like... instead of the 101lbs. person tall, blonde, fair skin ... maybe you should go w/ some like 140lbs. short , brunette and not fair but not ugly...some gurls who arent in your "image" tend to be the one guys fall for the most... so good luck with ur love life!
2006-11-20 21:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to come out your shell and hit the clubs go party you are not old go head just dress nice have confidence in yourself and trust me you will have someone in no time
2006-11-20 21:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by MIZZAMERICAOF2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the way u think like do i lik e her being picky just date one
2006-11-20 21:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by sexy don't cha! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont kno what ur looking for i guess
2006-11-20 21:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy C.C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋