i am 15 she is 14 we did a very very stupid thing 2 nights ago and had unprotected sex. i no i didn't *** but i also no that she can still get pregnant from pre ***. we where only going at it for about 10 mins and then we stopped. last night she said something that really freaked me out she said she was late and that she was sopossed(spelling) to get her period the next day which she didn't. but she also said that she has missed her period lots of times be4 and this isnt uncommen. it has now been 2 days since we had sex and she says she hasnt been feeling sick in the morning or anything. what should we do. is their a chance she is pregnant. or can anyone tell me right now that she cant be. i am going to everyone on here as a seriously concerned teen.
PLZ help
2006-11-20 13:06:19 · 14 answers · asked by freakedoutteen 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
buy a pregnancy test
:> peace
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2006-11-23 17:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, yes you can get pregnant from the pre ejaculate. Theres still the sperm in that just like there is in the ejaculate. If she was already late before this happened, chances are she isnt pregnant. She does need to see a doctor to get her periods regulated. By 14 you should start having semi-regular to regular periods...morning sickness (if she was pregnant) doesnt start right away, and sometimes people dont experience it at all. There are so many lessons to be learned by this experience. If you do decide to keep having sex, use condoms or make sure she is on birth control. It will not only regulate her periods, but can be used just like condoms. BUT!!! Use condoms allways!! Even if shes on birth control!
2006-11-20 21:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give it more than a day, I know you are stressed but tell her to take an EPT test (error proof tests), I am 21 years old. Her period really depends on her, stress is a main reason why she may miss her period, To be honest and personal I have not had a regular period in my life and I have had a period since I was 9. I currently haven't had a period for 5 months, I'm having sex and I'm not pregnant, just STRESSED!!! It's ok, You do need to protect yourself though. Good luck. a_d_dubose@yahoo.com for more ?'s
2006-11-20 21:20:59 · answer #3 · answered by ImAdOcToRuRaNeRd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex just before she was due, then chances are she's not. Females are only fertile for a few days a month (near the middle) and its highly unlikely to get pregnant outside this. Stress can make her period late. She needs to relax. I think you'll be fine, but be careful in future!
2006-11-20 21:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by Karen B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, what you did was not smart -- Try to be smart (even if that's not cool.
I can tell you pretty much for sure that she *could* be pregnant, but as someone else said, give it some time. Calm down, and don't do anything in a panic -- That only gets you more trouble.
Overall, try to do what you know is right.
2006-11-20 21:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by barjesse37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is young and her periods are certainly not regular yet. I mean her cycle is not regular.
But isn't 2 days before the beginning of the periods to close to be pregnant? 10 days before is understandable but 2 days, I am not to sure
So wait a bit more to be sure
2006-11-20 21:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by kl55000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you did not ejaculate, it is very unlikely she is pregnant. Also, this close to her cycle, she should not have been fertile. And after two days, you wouldn't know. Morning sickness won't kick in until about 3 weeks. Especially since her cycle is not regular, I would not worry. But definitely learn a lesson from this.
2006-11-20 21:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by lynn c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, panic. That's what parents hope you do. Give it a couple more days unless you can get a hold of emergency birth control today (Morning after pill). Learning lessons the hard way can make them stick, if you are lucky.
2006-11-20 21:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by iknowtruthismine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime you have unprotected sex, there is a possibility of pregnancy.
Symptoms dont happen that quickly. She should go see a doctor in a few weeks for a test.
2006-11-21 08:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can get pregant, even if you dont go inside her. My son is living proof of that. She can take a test to find out for sure. They make condoms for a reason,you really should consider them. Good Luck!
2006-11-20 21:20:05 · answer #10 · answered by My3kin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess its da luck of da draw in your case she mite be!and mabey yee will be lucky but i really recommend not stressing over it as its one sure way dat she will ''NOT'' have her period thinking bout it too much $10 yeer o.k {mother of 4}
2006-11-20 21:27:03 · answer #11 · answered by chicago 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋