I know my family isnt normal but ive got to no if something im about to do is going to **** up my life. my mom has sucky taste there's always a new guy of the week but the one she "loves" is a asshole. he hits my 16 year old stepbrother in front of me for no reason. im 15 hes an alcoholic and i know hitting your kid is spose to be a gray area but i new it was messed up when he would beat on him for no reason. my mom said i hav it comin when he hits me. i thought id go with it and wait til im legal. i was never an obedient kid and can you blame me for hating this guy so a couple hours ago i spilt his beer. when he told me to pick it up i told him to lick it off the floor. bad move on my part so he hit me in the same way he hits corey. no one was home and i looked like i got hit by a truck when he finished. we made a plan to tak the car and leave state tomorow is this gona make it way worse?
2006-11-20 13:02:23 · 13 answers · asked by haley R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if I were you I would go to the police and get this B*stard charged. don't runaway there are much worse things out there, stay and fight use the law police and social work can help you you have just got to make the call. you have my sympathy.
luv kby xx
2006-11-20 13:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your up a creek! Do you have family that you could stay with for a while? Do you know where you would go? His hitting you is completely wrong! If you can't get out of the house and you can't get him to leave, then there are a few things you could do. First you could try talking to social services (or whatever it might be called in your area) and tell them what he's doing. One warning though, this might just piss him off (my guess is it probably will). If social services doesn't take you and your siblings away or take him away then that means your going o be stuck in the same house with him. If someone confronts him about this he will probably get angry and take it ou on you. So if it's bad enough, you could also try calling the police. Either way you probably want to do it from somewhere where he can't hear you. Instead of calling though, you could go to the police station! If you go to the police station then you might get taken more seriously and they will probably have more options to help you. The only thing is they might take you away from your home and family. On the other hand it would probably keep you and your siblings from getting abused. If he treats you like this call the cops. If you call everytime he does it, then they can put him in jail or at least keep him from you.
No matter what you do you are in a bad situation. Just try to find a way out because he WON'T change! I wish you the best of luck!
P.S. If you can get an officer to see any bruises or marks from the abuse they can definitly do something. Give them any proof you can it will help!
2006-11-20 13:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by chromecranium 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Haley,,,,
Since your Mom is not going to help,,,, you just as well , for the sake of yourself and your brother,, call the Social Services people, and the police or sheriffs office and tell them ... They can get you and brother Out of the house,, safely, and into a foster home, away from the abuse... Even though you are a minor,, or if you have a relative around tell them!!! You need HELP!!! now,, take pictures of yourself and the brusing for evidence,, but call now ,, dont steal the car!!! This will make things much worse on you !! You will be the one in trouble,,, if you are brused up,,, take the car and go to the police station and tell them!!!! DONT run off... that is grand theft auto !!!!!
Good luck
2006-11-20 13:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. . .your mom's boyfriend is a JERK! And your mom sounds like she has her own issues if she lets her own children get physicallly abused, and probably verbally too. Well it doesn't sound like either of them are responsible adults WHATSOEVER.
Don't leave the state. . .You are still a minor, it'll be really hard trying to make it on your own in a brand new environment.
I don't really know, but I think you should call a child abuse hotline. That's what I would do if my mom's alcoholic boyfriend beat me up when there was no one else at home or beat my brother up for NO REASON. Oh my god. . .seek help! Tell a teacher. . .or someone responsible and kind and an adult you feel you trust. . .Use your best judgement, try to stay out of the JERK'S way no matter how mad he may make you, I know it's hard.
Peace. . .& good luck.
2006-11-20 13:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by Traveler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek help from child services since you're both under 18. Rather than taking off out of the state, do you have family or friends that you could both stay with while the authorities take over?
The fact that you're mother is siding with this guy who beats on you is horrible and means she's an unfit mother.
I commend you for wanting to leave, just make sure you have somewhere SAFE to go where you'll be protected.
2006-11-20 13:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haley, this is not your parent, call the police on this jerk, that is called child abuse. Do not take the car, or anything else in that matter. It will make things worse on you and your step brother. But you do need to get out of that house. You can also tell your teachers in school whats going on in your home life every day. Good luck to you, and God Bless you dear.
If your afraid your mother will be mad at you, explain the situations to somebody you can really trust. Even if you have to go to your neighbors home to get away from this jerk. Talk Corey into getting some help also. Lord knows you children need it.
2006-11-20 13:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by Moose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haley, don't take the car, they'll just accuse you of "Grand Theft Auto", then you and your brother will be in jail. The real person who should be in jail is the abusing SOB who hits you both. Go to the school nurse and show her your bruises. Get your brother to go with you and tell what happens to him too. This will help you get a safer place to stay, and will get him put in jail until your Mom gets her life sorted out. Be aware that this will probably end your relationship with your Mom, but if she loves you guys she may buck up and get some counseling and try to recover custody, and some dignity in her life along with it.
2006-11-20 13:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leaving state isnt a good idea. You are not an adult and your are only getting yourself into trouble with your mom and the police. If he is hitting you talk with your mom, if that doesnt or hasnt worked speak with someone grandma, aunt, dad, anyone and let them know whats going on. But DO NOT leave the state.
2006-11-20 13:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops, now. running away will only get you in more trouble than you can handle.
what he's doing to you is wrong, and if you go to the cops right now, while you still look like you were hit by a truck, they can help you.
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