I have been seeing this girl in school and I can't get her out of my mind. We don't know each other but she is fine as hell. she don't got a boyfriend and I was wondering how should i approach her so we eventually go together soon. Plz Help.
2006-11-20
12:34:45
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
She's black and I'm black
2006-11-20
12:35:11 ·
update #1
I am good looking
2006-11-20
12:35:29 ·
update #2
We are in high school
2006-11-20
12:37:49 ·
update #3
LOL You have got to be the cutest classified-type message I have ever seen!
First of all, congrats on being self-confident. Secondly, keep in mind all your good qualities in case she rejects you (ps: don't matter if you're black or green or polka-dotted, ignore that in a relationship).
Now, onto the good stuff: you won't want to go too fast, of course, or either of you can lose interest. Go slowly. You can approach her directly and introduce yourself, or wait 'til she drops something on the floor and run (sweep base if necessary, lol) to get it, or do the "Can I carry your books?" thing, or "accidentally" bump into her and profusely apologize (without forgetting to ask for her name and give yours) and then offer to make it up to her by treating her to a lunch or a coffee or something, or if you want to be reeeeeeally cool about this (and mysterious), start sending her secret admirer little cards each week (this will peak her interest). Someone did this with me in HS and I ended up going with the person for 5 years. Send a "singing telegram" or "message telegram" with someone from another grade who doesn't know you (so they can't blab about who you are at firfst - oh, don't give them your name). Find out when her b-day is and that day have a flowershop deliver a huge bouquet in the middle of one of her classes in front of all her classmates. Women love that stuff :)
If I think of anything else I'll post it :D Best of luck with Miss Lucky!
2006-11-20 12:45:18
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answer #1
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answered by Ex-presidente inteligente 3
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Approach her with respect. Don't act arrogant and cocky that's a major turn off. Maybe ask her if you could call her sometime. Smile and give her some eye contact. Start a converstation about your favorite hip hop artist or something. Compliment her on her hair or clothes. Good luck.
2006-11-20 20:48:20
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answered by ms_kiki00 2
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well if shes as fine as hell she must be pretty bad... no jk, and ne way introduce urself in a calm manner and well this may sound gay but u might want to practice this in the mirror like they say first inpression is always the best. and well say hi to her in the halls and stuff and get to kno her and well see where it goes from there.
2006-11-20 20:38:04
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answered by *Living a {{ღяøM@N!Cღ}} Tragity* 5
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I wouldnt go out of your way to approach her but if you pass her in the hall smile at her, say hi, ask how she is doing. She will notice you! :)
2006-11-20 20:38:43
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answered by Anonymous
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This is called a crush. It's perfectly normal for kids your age.
1) Learn how to speak proper English and become friends with her.
2) Be yourself around her--don't pretend to be someone you're not.
2006-11-20 20:36:17
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answered by FaZizzle 7
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well approach her one day and say hi and tell she looks good and slowly get to know her and then ask her out!
2006-11-20 20:38:33
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answered by *meggie* 2
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well i m just gonna list some things u can do -k- -k-
1)smile at her when she walks by u
2)ask her "what's up?"
3)write a note to her
4)talk to her
Well HOPE I HELPED! & GOOD LUCK!!:) And sorry it's not much:(
2006-11-20 20:48:20
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answered by Anonymous
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talk to her and smiel and flirt with her, then ask her to see a movie friday night or soemthing u have to ask her out sometime...
2006-11-20 20:37:32
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answered by Anonymous
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Ask her out.
2006-11-22 12:36:16
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answered by ♥Confused♥ 4
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awww that's so cute! lol
but you should just go up to her and introduce your self and try to start a conversation!
2006-11-20 20:38:10
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answered by Anonymous
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