Okay here is the deal there is this guy and i really like him but he kids around a lot....anyways i called one night and i asked him if he liked me and he said no and i said okay then like not even a week later and came up to me and put his hands around my waist then he said i really like u and then he kissed me and then asked me to make out with him.....do u think this guy really likes me or just wants to use me???HELP ME PLEASE!!!
2006-11-20 12:33:58 · 10 answers · asked by Chelsie (I think Im in love) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps he was also confused and did not really believe that he liked you but when you confronted him he shyed out and said 'no'.
Perhaps he was just very nervous, you'd know that better than me. If he was then he could have said anything and most likely the wrong thing. haha. But he seems to have thought about it and thats when he gained the courage to come straight up to you and tell you how he felt. (he may have gotten some good advice off someone.)
I'd give him the benefit of the doubt unlike many of the people that answered here, mainly because i dont know him, besides you're probably the best to judge his sincerity.
Some people said he just wants to sleep with you. Well i'd say they are partially right, because he probably does but he may also really like you! And that could be the difference between whether you decide he is being honest or not.
(If he is in it for the sex then he will try for it early in the relationship. If he is denied then he may change attitude and lose interest. But this would be a good thing because then you'd at least know whether it was worth it or not.)
Anyway good luck :)
2006-11-20 12:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really like this guy, that's plain to see. Maybe he has a funny way of showing his emotions but to kid around that seriously then I think he's just trying to have you as a play toy. Go with your heart. Talk to him and find out if he's serious or just joking/playing w/ your emotions.
2006-11-20 20:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by CompWiz56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is using you. If he liked you he would have told you up front I mean what did he have to lose you are the one that told him you liked him. Don't waste your time on someone that doesn't know what they want.
2006-11-20 20:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be stupid all he wants is to play games with you he wants to see how far he can go i can almost asure you that the minute you sleep with him and give him what he wants he will leave you dont do it you will just end up hurt
2006-11-20 20:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by aliaunique06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wants to get inside your pants
most likely what he did
he thought to himself, hmm if she really likes me how far can i go?
then he went and made sure with his buddy, like if his buddy said hell yeah go for it, experience bro.
so then there u go. making out
2006-11-20 20:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He trying to use you. Am sorry but its kind of obvious. Dont fall for it. Let him go.
2006-11-20 20:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
â¥Kick his a$$ to the curb- you don't need someone that's going to confuse youâ¥
2006-11-20 20:37:48 · answer #7 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll have mixed feelings about him. i won't make out with him until he has shown me that he is responsible enough to go out with me. i wouldn't like someone who goofs around too much, but goofing around occasionally would be okay for me. i dunno about u, but that's wat i'll do
2006-11-20 20:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to score... baby go for it
2006-11-20 20:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by Abner R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say... "prove to me you're not borderline." :-D
2006-11-20 20:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋