keep apologizing to my bf about things i did in the past but he doesn't seem too forgiving and i understand. but i think it's unfair him to take 3 days to think about what he should do about us while i'm forced with the stress of having to wait for my bf to possibly to break up with me. advice? how can i truly prove to him that i'm willing to commit?
2006-11-20 12:31:58 · 4 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel like he's playing games with me. this "break" was not a mutual one because if it was i wouldn't be so steamed about it. but personally, i think since he's a freshman in college and me being a senior in high school, he's going to "explore" his options this week. what a joke.
2006-11-20 12:33:22 · update #1
well, not to take anything away from you dear, but he should have realized that by dating a younger woman who hasn't even graduated high school yet, he should have expected some indecisiveness from you in the beginning. if you erred and were "unfaithful" to him in some way, and he is lording that over you, then you have to cut your ties to him immediately. he either loves you or he doesn't, and if you felt a need to spend some time with someone else that he found was a threat to your relationship, then it sounds like it's all on him, not on you. you're too young to commit anyway, especially to a man who's already in college and you have not even graduated high school yet! how many gf's did he have before you came into his life? how many bf's have you had in any type of SERIOUS commitment? you need to have time to be sure he's the one for you. keep that in mind when he's making you feel like you were a "bad girl" for whatever it was you were supposed to have done to piss him off. he had time to play. when does your time come? good luck sweets.
2006-11-20 12:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by vrandolph62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wrong for doing what you did, but hes like goin to far, by playing with your feeling, cause you know no matter what the situation, you shouldnt put others to the pre-state of depression. look you both need to sit down and be mature about. man just tell him either we talk, or i walk, if he talks, hes not just playing games, if he walks, he was playin you ma. so just do that, and tha truth will unshadow itself.
2006-11-20 21:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to "prove" you are ready to commit, then your both not ready for a complicated relationship.
So calm down and give yourselves time.
Things will work out if you both want them too.
2006-11-20 20:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should keep talking to him .. he\'ll crack in the end if he loves you
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2006-11-20 20:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋