Me and my boyfriend aren't talking because he started to make a joke of what happened between us when we first had sex. I got upset at him because that's our business, and i felt embarrassed. now ishould i be upset at him, because he didn't see that what he said hurt me, and embarrassed me or should i call him and try to work things out. i really do think he didnt consider the fact that he hurt my feelings when he said what je said. so what should i do?
2006-11-20 12:29:04 · 5 answers · asked by i_dont-get_it 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This really depends on the situation. Most guys don't think like us, sex is just sex to them. No matter what he said he shouldn't have shared anything. You do need to talk to him, he may not even know he hurt you or why he hurt you. Don't tell him how mad you were, just go to him and tell him that you are hurt by what he said and explain why- not in detail- guys hate that - short and sweet- " I just want you to know that I am hurt by you sharing _______ because I feel like that was a special thing", then let him explain. I don't think he did it to hurt you. And if he is just one of those guys that has sex and blabs break it off. But make sure he hurt you deliberately before you mess a good thing up!!! It might be his age too! Another thing: whether or not things work out...NEVER BAD MOUTH HIM OR DENY ANY GOOD ABOUT HIM, always speak highly of everyone because people are more likely to believe the person that isn't bashing the other person, people that bash usually are jealous or want revenge because what the other person said is true. And if someone speaks of that "embarrassing" thing, play along. If you laugh about it and don't act upset , people will let it go sooner! Might not even believe it. Everyone knows that guys exaggerate to make things seem like they are in control.
2006-11-20 12:49:35 · answer #1 · answered by ImAdOcToRuRaNeRd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First say my boyfriend and I, none the less, talk to him first maybe he did not know talking about your sex life was not an open discussion, some couples have no problem with sharing bedroom talk with others, just let him know you are not one to share pillow talk.
2006-11-20 20:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by 520 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to apologize. He the one one who needs to apologize, because he the one who hurt you. It comes to times when a guy just does that because he is round his friends and does not realize it until yall are alone and how much he hurt you, but you can call him but just call him to tell him that he hurt you.
2006-11-20 20:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by star200252 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was in the wrong. That is something very personal between two people. He owes you an apology.
2006-11-20 20:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did he say
2006-11-20 20:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by Xcrazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋